How to cope with breakup blues?

India
January 12, 2007 11:49am CST
A breakup takes out a lot out of us,and we feel gloomy and the emotions are so uncontrollable that you are not sure of what you are going to do the next moment. What is the best way to get over a broken relationship?
11 responses
• India
12 Jan 07
yes break up are very hard to handle--emotionally.i suggest these 1.engage yourself with work. 2.remove you ex's sign from your day-to-day life.eg-gifts,letters,cards etc 3.be with your friends 4.watch comedy show. the basic is to engage yourself.dont be idle.all the best
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• India
13 Jan 07
I am trying to do this but the thing is am not able to concentrate fully on the work. And as far as friends are concerned ,i dont feel like going out with anyone .I want to be alone i feel.It's like i have become hyper sensitive to others.I react hyper to any condition. Dont know what to do?
@JJOD2007 (160)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
1. Cry until there's no tears running. 2. Keep yourself busy (work, go to the gym, watch tv, play games, etc.) 3. Talk to a friend, even your going to say same old stories, reasons, even if your ask the million why your friend will understand you. 4. Don't look for another relationship its not healthy and its unfair to the next partner and to yourself. 5. Don't overeat you'll gain weight.
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• India
14 Jan 07
hey this is the most practical thing i can do now i suppose.Thanx jjod it helped.
@JJOD2007 (160)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
thank you for taking time to read my response. I hope your feeling better. Have a wonderful day...
• United States
12 Jan 07
haveing a blast - hanging out haveing a foam party
I would say the best thing to do is go out with your friends and be completely silly and have so much fun you don't have time to think about it. Good luck we have all been through this at some time or another.
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• India
13 Jan 07
guess time will be the best healer.
• India
12 Jan 07
i have went thru a break up and the best way to get over it is to hang out with friends and family... start a new hobby or join a new class... this usually gives u less time to think about the break up and keeps ur mind away from it... it will hurt but time will heal everything...
• India
13 Jan 07
thats a nice idea ,i'll tyr that out and hope this helps.
• India
13 Jan 07
the may not be the best way but one of the ways to cope up with breakups. start dating other gals. this may help you out to forget ur past and also a chance for a brand new start.
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• India
13 Jan 07
that way i may have some releif as of now,this can help.
• India
5 Feb 07
Break is the worst thing of a relationship which unfortunately isn't entirely in our hands to control . Eo cope up with break-up is by finding someone far better than one you have just broke up. Do not hate the person you have broken up with because the more you hate is the more you miss and the more you love . Find someone BETTER . And trust me just have an broader point of view and you'll succeed.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
13 Jan 07
i think this is were friends come into picture.and best engage yourself in a hobby.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
25 Apr 07
For me the best way to get over a break-up is to get together with my girls and have a girls night out and just have fun. The guys who hit on me makes me think I'm not the one who's missing out but he is since he broke up with me.
• India
13 Jan 07
i think so that kind of matter should be solved by both party by taking good enough time and discussion
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
smile. and think that there is someone perfectly for you out there. you just haven't met your true soulmate.
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• India
13 Jan 07
Taking a hot bath makes me feel better just after the breakup. And eating a lot of what I like for the latter hours. But for the rest of the time, moving on and thinking that whatever happens, happens for the good. And what happened happened for it could not have happened in any other way. I am not very helpful, I guess.
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