deal or no deal?
By paulyn
@paulyn (81)
Philippines
January 12, 2007 10:59pm CST
Just in case you fall in love with a person who was divorced and have kids, would you carry the responisbility of their children as well? Wll you also pay for their school? shoulder their financial support?
Is there a probablity that you could fall in love with women who were previously married? or d you prefer single women? what do you think?
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@hassanchop (820)
• United States
13 Jan 07
No. I will not be in any relationships with any single moms. Allowing yourself to fall in love with someone you are not compatible with is foolish, and it is simply letting your emotions and feelings control your life instead of letting your logic control your emotions and feelings. You should be compatible with someone first. If that is there, then the "fall into love" will come.
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@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
13 Jan 07
I think it's harder for single parents to find love, but I do believe it can happen. If I loved a guy enough, and his children were good kids, I might help care for them but not pay for them. I would be suspicious of a guy who asked for help for his kids if we were only dating.
But if the kids were horrible brats, or teen jerks, I probably would help with advice and upbringing a little but I probably wouldn't do too much. Then again, I'd probably fall out of love with a guy who had bratty/mean kids b/c I'd think it's his fault.
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@paulyn (81)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
thanks for your reply. my best friend was married for 2 years. now, she is getting a divorce good thing is that she does not have any kids yet. but now the problem is she is falling in love with a guy that has a 10 year old kid.... i dont know. maybe im just afraid she might fall into pieces and have a broken heart again..
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