which part of life is better???after marriage or before marriage????
By 18111983
@18111983 (66)
Bangladesh
January 13, 2007 12:35am CST
what do u think which part of life is better?after marriage or before marriage???i think before marriage is the best.after marriage there creates lots of problem like tension,compromise,missunderstanding,responsibilities.lots of stuff.what do you think.
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@padu19 (1441)
• India
24 Mar 07
marriage is a part of our life which everyone must surely experience. it's a divine bond of love and possessiveness. but of course before marriage we have no responsibilities to fight over,or no one new to misunderstand or judge.. it's enjoyable when a husband and wife compromise for themselves. when a woman becomes a mother and when the man realize her motherhood along with the happiness of becoming a father.
also the way they sacrifice something for their children,when they greet themselves for their anniversaries, when they spend time together in a beach holding hands in hands with pride, when a wife rejoice for her husband's promotion, when they console themselves after a serious argument or qaurrel.... these are really enjoyable. thing is you should shed your ego.. never think marriage is a burden. you can have fun even after marriage(in fact much more after marriage with little more responsibilities)...
@mcrowl (1050)
• New Zealand
13 Jan 07
I think the only word in your discussion that is important is 'responsibility.' Before marriage you have much less responsibility; after marriage you have far more. If you have a relationship with someone before marriage you will still have tension, compromise and missunderstaning. With marriage you take on responsbility - and that's when you start to grow up! LOL
By the way I've been married for over thirty years, and I'm much happer than I ever was before I was married.