Cheat or true? I have two boyfriends,what should I do?

Argentina
January 13, 2007 12:52am CST
Hi,let me tell you my story:when I was a little girl,I used to play games all the day with my neighbor,the years were passing and I realized that I was in love with him,but I never told him because because I had orthodontics and I felt very ashamed to kiss him. Now that I grew up,I´m living with a boy,he´s amazing.The problem is that a few weeks ago I found my old love while I was having breakfast in a shopping center,and we stayed hours drinking coffee and talking as if we were made one for the other, It was impossible not to kiss him when he told me that he loves me since he was a child.I don´t know what to do.I´m doubtful...the love of my life or the perfect man?
4 responses
cisco1
@cisco1 (539)
• United States
14 Jan 07
go waht your heart tells you, i think you should tell your boyfriend because what you are doing is cheating. go what inside your gut feeling and heart tells you to do.
Chuchina
@Chuchina (21)
• Argentina
14 Jan 07
I know it`s cheating but I have different feelings for each one. It`s hard for me to tell for whom I have true feelngs because I like them both. But what if my feelings for both of them are tru?
dragon1963
@dragon1963 (55)
• United States
13 Jan 07
I have found that the best ting to do is to always go with your heart. Because if you don't you aren't going to be truly in love with who you are with...Life is all about chances and choices...Some good and some bad. That is where the old saying comes from "Live and Learn" And besides how would you be able to honestly look your partner in the eye and say you loved him/her if you were thinking about the other one...Hope this helps
Chuchina
@Chuchina (21)
• Argentina
14 Jan 07
You`re right, but my heart is a little confused now, so I don`know what to do. Meybe it`s just a matter of time and things will become clearer. I hope so.
chiyochan
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
he did say he loved you, but how did you respond to him? did you accept it already? you should think about it first. you have found the perfect man fo you and im sure you have loved him too. and there is this guy whom you liked as a child saying you are loved by him... now you still have to get to know him first right?
Chuchina
@Chuchina (21)
• Argentina
14 Jan 07
Yes, I have to get to know him. I`ll wait a little more. I`m still confused. I donpt even know what i feel. I didn`say "I love you" to my boyfriend yet because I don`t know if I do after my chilhood friend got into my life again.
malaekat2an
@malaekat2an (526)
• Indonesia
13 Jan 07
just take your time, let both of them enter your life, and later on you'll know who is the best for you. Since you're not married yet, then it's still free to choose anyone that you like, or maybe dating both, but, you must choose one of them when you're married, you can't get two husband ! (except you're on that polyandric things, and those males doesn't bother with poliandry)
Chuchina
@Chuchina (21)
• Argentina
14 Jan 07
I`m doing that, but is hard to date with two boyfriends at the same time. Anyway, I`ll try to decide before something bad happens