What do you do when you suffer due to other's decisions?

@ronaldinu (12422)
Malta
January 13, 2007 2:32am CST
Just let them be and take your own decisions or keeping hoping that your friends reverse their decisions?
6 responses
• Malta
21 Jan 07
Just let them be! I would take my own decision but do not keep hoping they change their minds! It's a waste of time. We all have rights to decide something and be respected for our decisions. As for suffering, your only answer is time. Time heals all our suffering. Some need little time, others a bit longer.
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@Deane_2005 (1644)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
I do suffer from my parents decision and I just can't do about it anymore. What I just do is think of many things that can overcome those lost from me. I don't blame any people anymore of making such decisions . I just let them be, anyway I am starting to fix all borken pieces in my life. So I guess when you had suffer in any decision made by someone else, just don't blame anyone, blame yourself because you allow it.
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@seenoreen (559)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
I wouldn't be in this situation because I would always decide for myself. If it did happen to me, I'll tell whoever caused me to suffer that I'll be reversing my decision
@csanand17 (310)
• India
13 Jan 07
if i thought my decision is right i try to convince them about that.even if they don't agree wat can i say 'go to hell'
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@SageMother (2277)
• United States
13 Jan 07
YOu need to explain what kind of suffering. Did a friend do something that affected you badly? I tend to not let friends hae that sort of impact on mylife. My friends don't make decisions for me and they all understand that if I ask their opinion or I ask them for a suggestion, that I might not take the course they suggest. My friends are not my new parents!
• India
13 Jan 07
i cant rely on other eirher be it my frnds...i jus know this that being a true fighter u have to get up and stand like a wall for ur on rite and for the wrong done to u...!! will Come out and show them that its not gonna be easy this time....
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