never rush into a marriage

Romania
January 13, 2007 3:53am CST
i never understood why so many people rush into a marriage especially to leave home and always end up in a divorce or struggle to leava in a marriage that is not good for them. where is love? understanding each other? what do yyou think?
3 responses
symontimea
@symontimea (842)
• Romania
13 Jan 07
you are right, marriage is not a thing you can start al over in case you screw up once...you have to "think Twice " before you act
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luckyinlove
@luckyinlove (23)
• United States
3 Feb 07
in my personal opinion, love is different for each couple. But when you truly have trust, loyalty and feel safe- i think that says most of it. i now believe that Understanding each other means that you have developed a friendship. And hopefully a best friend. And with that, everything kinda just falls into place. And you go from "loving" that person to "being IN love"! and that, i would imagine, makes for a great marriage =)
John
@mac1946 (1602)
• Calgary, Alberta
2 Feb 07
I do not know about today really,I missed my chance for what I beleive could have been my love for life. My parents were married for 53 years,and it had it's ups and downs,but they were happy. I never did get married,and now I regret not having looked harder,I am now 60 and lonely,you do not notice this when you are young and have your family neer to you,but when they die or move far away,you wish things had turned out different.