emotional blackmail ...

I have no experience on it, but I think it is very bad. Everyone has free will, so if someone dont wanna go out with a certain girl/boy, then it is their choice. And also if a person wanna broke up from the relationship it is also their choices. I understand that sometimes it is hard to get rejected, or it is hard when someone broke up with you. I have been in that position as well, and what I wanted to do is of course to do anything I can do to keep him with me. However, I dont think emotional blackmail is the way to go. If he wants to be with me, then he will be with me, otherwise he will leave me. Afterall, there are still many other guys/girls out there.

I do not actually have ex that done that. But my friend's ex did. But not because breaking up. My friend was rejecting him and he threaten to jump of the window. It is all just silly

no that never happen to me. if that person does it to you then just leave him, you shouldnt be force to stay with taht person. leave him and if he does something that is against the law report it to the cops.

I think better is to ignore this thing. Maybe they will be ashamed by themselves for doing that and just tried to forget it and not discussing about that again with you. Just as about a mistake that one tries to avoid or even to remember anything about it. If they insist to do such nasty thing, just avoid to meet them again : I am of the opinion that nobody might be afraid about things that are not under his control - as time as you can't stop the rain or the snow, why even to try that ? You can't do it, dont waste your time with that and don't be fear about it - just deal with matters that are under your control and decision.

If people ever threaten like that... I think you should just leave them... those are horrible threats, and I don't believe that being with that person helps anything, it will just result in the relationship ending up being worse.