about secret marriage
By sundaecone
@sundaecone (191)
Canada
January 13, 2007 8:35am CST
HI! GOOD DAY. IM SUNDAE 24 AND HAPPILY MARRIED, ACTUALLY ITS ONLY A SECRET. MY HUBBY PROPOSE AT ME LAST YEAR AND I SAY "yes" I THOUGHT ITS A PART OF HIM AS A ROMANTIC PERSON, WE GET MARRIED WITH NO PRIEST OR PASTOR AND NO WITNESS ALSO BUT WE HAVE WEDDING RING. WE MADE PROMISES, ITS LIKE AN ORDINARY WEDDING BUT THE DIFERENCE IS WE ONLY DO OUR OWN SEREMONY BY SAYING "i do and make some promises" LIKE BRIDE AND GROOM, BUT FOR US GOD I OUR WITNESS. FOR YOU POINT OF VIEW DO YOU THINK SECRET MARRIAGE OR LIKE THE SEREMONY THAT WE DO IS LEGAL OR DO YOU THINK WE ARE REALLY MARRIED? TNX AND GOD BLESS
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4 responses
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
13 Jan 07
well You are married in your hearts and spirit, but not in na way that is rercognizable to anyone else at all. I only hope your reasons are not bc he or you are married to anyone else.
@sundaecone (191)
• Canada
14 Jan 07
Hello Everyone, this is sundaecon's Hubby here... I just wanted to add my point of view on this matter seeming how there are so many good concerned people out there replying. I do not wish to hide my Wife and I do already tell everyone about her and each day that she is not in my life I work all day and night to have her in my life. She is the most special person to me in the world! I Love her very much and only her as my woman. I hope that this will celar up the doubting minds. Thank you all for being concerned about what is best for my Wife. God Bless.
@hockeygal4ever (10021)
• United States
16 Jan 07
In the US it's considered "living together" and if you do that for 7 years it's then considered a "marriage" by law, even without the paperwork.
I personally think that whatever makes you happy. Just remember, without paperwork and laws if things ever do go wrong you may not have as many rights. I hope you never have to find out and that your "marriage" of hearts remains forever. Good luck.
@patrice7 (1191)
• United States
13 Jan 07
i dont think that it is a legal marriage and for me i dont consider you married even if you have a wedding ring. for one a priest is needed as he is god's earthly representative to give his blessings. and also i dont think that your marriage is authentic as it is only done by you two.. well thats my idea. anyway i like what you both did!. i think that it is very romantic and very fun. i wish we could also do that but my relationship is in rocks so maybe someday..
@cyb3rjunk13 (470)
• United States
15 Jan 07
Well i think if your happy with your partner then thats all matters.
Marriage isnt a name of a document signed my bride and the groom.Marriage is actually a promise to be together in worries and happiness.If you people are happy together and if you have accepted each other from the depth of your soul then you people are married.
