boss secretary relation ship

IT IS A FAKE DISCUSSION AS IN YOUR PROFILE YOU HAVE CLEARLY STATED THAT YOU ARE A MALE.

You see.. This has been a very big problem since a very long time...you can always report this to the higher authority... It will be there in your company's website... There you can easily disguise yourself if you wish to... if you don want this... JUST MARRY WITH SOMEONE else... And tell you too are married.. Or else just tell a lie that you are marrieed..

You will need to ask yourself if you'll like the take the relationship a step further than boss-secretary relationship. If this is not what you have in mind, I suggest you decline his invite the next time h invites you out otherwise you may give him the impression that you're interested in him. To decline his invite you will need to be very careful with your response so as not to jeopardise your job.

if he wishes to marry u go ahead, but if he is palying with u u complaint about hm to the law

i think the best way to handle that situation is to be more tolerant, and also it depends on whether you really enjoy your job, because if not the best thing to do is to find another one straight away. But i think most that kind of atmosphere exists in all boss-secretary relationships. so it's up to decide if on the professional aspect you like working with him, you learn from him, and other things. Now the fact that he's 10 years older than you doesn't mean anything, i even wonder why you had to mention it! What would happen if he was same age as you and let's say "cute"? you obviously would have gone out with him!!(?) I think you should try to answer this question to yourself and you will have a good solution to your probleme

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Seeing from any angle, you seem to relish this situation. Pressing boobs without being objected means either physical contact has been established or is only the next step. Inspite of all the 'mylot' advice, you may not be in a position to summon enough courage to resist your boss. Your admittance of the facts that most of the people try to hide, is a proof that you have almost fallen in line with your boss. You accept dresses from him, you go to parties with him, you meet his kids, you live alone in the town, you allow him to pat your butts nd press your boobs suggests that you do not really have a genuine problem. Could it be that you are really not a victim but posted a concocted story just for amusement!

I think it is disgusting what your boss is doing and even more disgusting is the fact that you are allowing him to do it , indirectly giving him consent . if he was not your boss and was some radside romeo would you have entertained him like that. I think he is misusing his postion and both of you are being unfair by your conduct to other colleagues in your office. I feel your boss is sexually exploiting you and is misusing his authority and he needs to be reported to higher authorities for that so that he can be taken to task. I feel you are emotionally vulnerable and have started to like your boss but he is just using you as he thnks he can get away.

From my analysis I think you are attracted to him more than he is attracted to you. Secretaries ideolise their bosses, this is normal. I also feel that the two of you move as friends and he is not playing the role of a boss who has authority and control over you. There seems to be a more friendlier and free atmosphere. Just study him as a person and not from how he is with you. If he is OK there is nothing wrong in marrying him.

well you are in a tough spot. If you dont like what he is doing tell him upfront and tell him that you dont appreciate his gestures and that he needs to keep his hands off of you. Maybe you should find another job.

well, he does things to you because you have allowed him too. he offers you gifts, and even to stay with him. i think you like him and is considering it too, otherwise you will not even say that his kids like you too... you must have met them several times already. if you like him then waste no time. if you don't and you feel exploted, then this is another issue. harassment as others think of it.

Are you christian? IF you are, then it's time to tell your boss the christian principle about marriage.

i thinkur boss should be steady to u and all.. he shds develop love ..

well i can understand ur situation .. if u like him then there is no problem in marrying him.... but if u dont then u make him aware of ur stand

If he really respects you, he can asks you out in a nice manner not by phatting your butt or pressing your boobs. These can be done at a later stage. Be firm otherwise the abuse is going to continue.

wood u let me know first u r m/f