10 things to avoid when in a relationship...
By prettydoyce
@prettydoyce (282)
Philippines
January 13, 2007 9:57am CST
1. NEVER flirt when you know you are taken
2. NEVER fall in love with others. Stay in love with your partner
3. NEVER lie
4. NEVER go out with or without your partner's permission
5. NEVER go out for a date with other person
6. NEVER do things that will hurt your partner
7. NEVER stay quiet.. Say your feelings when you are hurting
8. NEVER call a person when you know that your partner would get jealous
9. NEVER kiss and hug with the opposite gender
10. NEVER say promises that you cannot keep
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5 responses
@samsonskola (3357)
• United States
13 Jan 07
wow...very good advice...so many people i've known should read this and take it to heart. Unfortunately, there are so many people that do these very things, and then they wonder why their relationship didn't work out..you must always think about the other person and ask yourself...."what would i do if he/she did that to me?" If more people thought this way, there would be many more long lasting relationships.
@prettydoyce (282)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
hey thanks sansonskola. i appreciate your view on my blog.. thanks thanks thanks :)
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
13 Jan 07
I can agree to some of your poinsts but not to others. i do NOT agree with nr 4.. I do not need a permission to go out. A relationship is not a jail and even if i have a relation i am allowwed to go out,. ofcourse I will tell him, but i will not ask for permission.
Also i do not agree with 9.. I have male friends and he has female friends. i hug mine and he hugs his A hug is just to show you like someone and it doesn´t make u love your partner less. The KEY is Trust!
@prettydoyce (282)
• Philippines
13 Jan 07
yes i understand. thank you for that input. actually, i myself does not agree at some points in here but majority would really help out in staying true to your partner.. but i have to admit that some points may or may not be done. it would only depend on the foundation of your relationship.. maybe this is applicable for those people who are starting a relationship because they are still adjusting to each other
@shalwani (760)
• Pakistan
27 Feb 07
You don’t share with each other.
A relationship is a partnership, and that means sharing pleasures as well as responsibilities. If you’re not sharing with your partner, whether it’s time at dinner, a beautiful sunset or what you said to the boss at work today, you’re missing out on one of the best parts of a relationship. And if you can’t share these little things, how will you share the big things when they come along?
You’re always apart.
If you’re always choosing to spend time away from each other rather than in each other’s company, then something is missing. Everyone needs their own time or time with their mates, but if you find yourself dreading time with your partner, then there’s something seriously wrong. What’s making it not fun? Figure that out and try to fix it before you end up with a completely broken relationship.
You argue a lot – for no reason and for every reason.
There will always be disagreements, but if you’re always arguing or if you seem to be arguing a lot more lately, take it as a warning sign. Pay attention to what starts the arguments and what you fight about, and see if you can’t sit down together and work things out without the anger and hurt.
