Unconditional love

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There comes a time when you have to stop running from your life, the people in it and the things that have happened or could happen, stop worrying about how this looks to someone else, or if they like you or don't like you, do they love you or don't love you, are they cheating on me, why not this, why not that, etc. Whatever it is, is just what it is...worrying about it will not change it, rather only egg the situation on further. Always know that the truth will come out one way or another, and when it does, love that truth, love them still, you always will anyway, even "hate" is a form of love. Stop running from whatever is haunting you, stop avoiding life by analyzing it so much. Yes it is chasing you, and you can outrun your life for only a while, taking an outsider's point of view all the time. Stop running, turn around, open your arms and let it surround you, embrace it, hug it, love it. See yourself in the center of this big roundish blob called your life It is perfectly okay to be self centered in this sense -- it is the only way for you to first be completely you, completely whole and without needs. Once we are complete and fulfilled, centered and focused, only then do have something to offer to someone else. If someone else is always on your mind or your worries, then that person becomes the center of your world and you are not yourself any longer. Be whole, embrace your life. Love you and all the people in your life with unconditional love, the kind of love you exhibit to your pets, the sweet little things they are...we all need to be loved in that way. Let the people in your life love you, they only want to love you too. Your mom and dad only care about you. If they are not there to love you, they could be if they could. If you doubt that for whatever reason, maybe they never got this message and maybe it's our turn to first love someone else so that they could see true love for their first time...the cycle has to start somehow by someone, let it be us, let us change the world now. Your brothers and sisters, they only see themselves in you, and sometimes when we look in the mirror we are sooooo critical of ourselves. Show them it is okay to be you and them. Sometimes strangers see reflections of their own lives in you...again, be cool with that, show them that we are all OK. Be open and honest and caring toward one another and just simply know that everything will be okay.