what do you do when......

I have never had this happen to me before but I don't think it would be a big deal. I don't get too upset about the rules of fashion. They are constantly changing the rules anyway!

if we look stunning and beautiful that night in a party i will go to her and tell her that we have a taste in choosing a dress because my taste is just like her to dress that in a party. you must be proud.. (",)

Well I wouldn't worry about it. In fact I'd probably go up to her and say she has great tastes in clothing. I could never really understand why so many women get upset by that. Men don't if some guy is in the same suit as him, so why should women get upset if another has the same or similar dress? To me that is silly.

It depends on the party situation. If it is prom or homecoming, you really can't go home and change your dress, makeup, and shoes. That situation happened to me homecoming freshmen year, and it occurred to the majority of the girls from my school at prom. I did more than grin and bear it. I walked around the room as if my dress was completely unique. No one really noticed because I carried myself with confidence. I guess if it's a smaller party, then you can make sure to bring a change of clothes to the party. Or you could have a guy friend go to the party ahead of you, and have him call you to tell you the outfits that he sees to avoid the incident totally.