Why Men Cheat!?
By gynbel
@gynbel (52)
Philippines
January 14, 2007 6:51pm CST
guys and gals, give me your reasons why men cheat. I know that not all men cheat but there were some. And what's the reason behind those cheating?
6 responses
@Oriental_Sniper (74)
• Spain
15 Jan 07
Because, somewhere inside us, just our nature, wants to get everything, taste everything, has everything.
Besides that, there are chances, that in a failing relationship, most men tend to be afraid, even there's no sign of it, we just want someone to be with, share with, and in that moment your partner is not "available".
And there's also the type of man, who just don't feel happy to be with the same person all the time.
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@divin_gracia (180)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
add me up sniper, but i disagree on with you said about women being the factor of cheating. a lot of guys cheat, and that's a given, but you just said you guys wants to get everything, taste everything, and it's just your nature, so it means, women are not the reason or factor why you cheat.
@Oriental_Sniper (74)
• Spain
15 Jan 07
It is no discrimination, women is the factor of cheating, that's all, it begins and ends there.
@soadnot (1606)
• Canada
15 Jan 07
wtf... "in our nature" what are we chimps?
this is what seperates us from the animals "self control"ive had my share of girlfriends (although non of them over 6 months..) and i know wut im talking about
guys who cheat are insecure loosers, if you are in an real relationship, you wont feel the need to cheat.
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@moneymind (10510)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
well i do not really know exactly why do some men or women cheat but might be that they feel more human and get excited by it when they do cheat. greetings. : )
@candygurl24 (1880)
• Canada
15 Jan 07
I totally disagree. Not every man cheats. In some cases, yeah, it is indeed because the man decides to be a raging pig. Other times, you really can blame it on the woman a bit. Sometimes we can be too clingy, which makes a man want space, we can be controlling, which may make a man cheat just to know that we aren't really controlling him. There are many reasons, but in the end, the man chooses his actions, sometimes we just push him there a bit.
@ajisconic2000 (633)
• Nigeria
15 Jan 07
Men cheat on their wives for several reasons that can't just be easily exhausted,but the main reasons can be compounded under three categories.The first is lack of self control,the second is lack of fear of God and the third is lack of open-mindedness to their wife.If all men were open-minded to their wives,the issue of infidelity would have been reduced.
@mishang (498)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
men cheat because it's in their nature. they don't have this satisfaction. i'm not making a general statement. but sometimes, men tend to look for some traits that are not present with their partners thats is why they tend to cheat.
