Find your lost love....or not?
@smalltownmtngirl (327)
United States
January 14, 2007 9:09pm CST
OK...say you were in love with someone a long time ago. It was the best relationship you've ever had. Things didn't work out and you split up. Its been several years without any contact from this person. Yet, over the years you dream about them, think about them all the time, and miss them often. Regardless of your current situation, married or single, do you try to contact them? How do you stop the dreams? Is it a good idea to find your past?
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@mashimaro (1094)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
If I am single I will try to contact him..I will try my feelings if it is only a dream that I longing him or what is my reaction if he is around or he is already infront of me. Then I wll decide what comes next.If I am married and happy and contented with my family I will not waste my time to do a thing that can ruin my family.
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@shywolf (4514)
• United States
15 Jan 07
They say that you can never go home again, basically meaning that even though you dream of the past you can never go back there. I wonder about this a lot. There was a person in my life once upon a time who made me happier than anyone else ever did, and they were cruelly yanked out of my life after only a year. I still miss this person and think about them a lot. But I think that if we are meant to meet up again we will.
@smalltownmtngirl (327)
• United States
15 Jan 07
I agree with you there...if its meant to be, then it will be. Thanks for the response.
@angelface23 (2494)
• United States
24 Jul 08
I wouldn't try to contact them but I would hope and pray that I ran into them somewhere. It could be a good idea to find your past if things ended well. For me they didn't and I just left my husband so if I would run into him and he would know I am single maybe he would want to hang out again and see where it goes from there. But in my situation I am dating a guy who looks just like him.
@parthodc222 (35)
• India
15 Jan 07
it is always very hard to forget your true love,but if it does not succeed then we need to move on in life as thinking or dreaming about them only hurts us,as the other person for whom you are caring and thinking so much never has cares a damn about u,relationship needs two person to be in love with each other,if it is one sided then its better to come out of it and thinks that the other person was never meant for you.and for god sake dont let your past dictate you since it will only hurt your present,Move on in life dude :)
@smalltownmtngirl (327)
• United States
15 Jan 07
My past isn't dictating me, and it wasn't one sided. I have moved on in my life. You can't stop your dreams. And if you are dreaming of it constantly, there has to be some reason.
@lihongwei (15)
• China
9 Dec 07
It's wonderful to have this dream!Why you wish to get rid of it?Is great to let it just in your dream.
