Not approve or accept as a friend

India
January 15, 2007 1:34am CST
anyone in a mylot have u denied any one or not accept as a friend . if u did than why ? i means for what reason u haven't accept his/her request . i never denied .what about u?
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11 responses
• Thailand
15 Jan 07
I also don't deny a request to make me a friend. In fact it is an honor to have such request because people see something in you that made them send such request. I also believe that its rude to deny a request.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
15 Jan 07
i too agree with you.but some people donot think so.to each one his own opinion.i cant help it.
• India
15 Jan 07
thanks for ur beautiful response i think u people are 100% right
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
i will not denied anyone who want to be my friends, joint mylot is to make friend for me. so why denied someone.
• India
15 Jan 07
yes u are right . thanks for ur reply
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
15 Jan 07
i have never denied a friend. but recently, i have been thinking of being more critical and choosy when accepting a friend. i have decided not to ask for friendship anymore and go through the profiles minutely before accepting as a friend. the reson being, my friends' list is getting crowded and i cannot answer their discussions and i really want to respond to my friends'. here i must make something very clear, denying is not a bad thing. it's just that his/her profile doesn't suit me fine or may be i am not fit for him/ her. so, i think skimming thriough the requests is what i will do in future. this will ensure that i can do justice to FRIENDS feature in myLot. thank you santwana. keep sharing
• India
16 Jan 07
what u are facing here me too facing the same thing . i don't know u like my opinion or not .but in my opinion i first accept all request . wait for 5-10 days and watch their activity whether 1) they are active or not, 2) whether they respond my discussion even single one or not 3) if i reply his/her discussion he/she give a comment or not if i will get all quality in my friend than i regurally response his/her discussion . thanks mimpi
@aidonia (4209)
• Greece
15 Jan 07
Untill now i don't denied to any request.But i believe i will start delete some of them.The reason is i try to respons to any discussion they start and support them but i the end i don't see even one small help from them.
• India
15 Jan 07
yes u are right . well thanks for ur response . but my habbit i first try to respond all my friend discussion
@Rasnie (1135)
• Indonesia
15 Jan 07
I never reject everyone that request to be my friend, i do not have reason for doing that.
• India
15 Jan 07
yes this is humanity . thanks for ur response .
@freesoul (3021)
• Egypt
15 Jan 07
I do deny some requests, I don't think it's mean thing to do, sometimes I get 2 or 3 requests every day and i can't accept them all, i want to maintain a smaller list of friends so i can really check on their discussions not just have them there. I usually deny people who request to be my friends but has never posted to any of my discussions, I guess they should have looked on my profile and I they thought I can be a good friend they should liked my discussions.. so why they never post? any decent friend who post at my discussions a good response and has a good profile with quality discussions I accept and add to my list.
• India
15 Jan 07
yes u are 100% right but in my opinion i accept all friends but try to response those friend discussion who is active and respond me too .
@kiiizu (1901)
• Estonia
15 Jan 07
I haven't denied no one until now. As for myself, I have asked only once, a lady with the same interests, and she approved it. It's good to have many friends but now I'm not able anymore to answer to all their discussions. I haven't time enough to spend there, I can make only 10 - 20 responses a day.
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
15 Jan 07
Well I did accept everyone as a friend when they applied now I don't. The reason? I had several that wanted to be a friend just so they could get me to post to their threads but they never posted to mine. Most of the time what they did have for discussions were one line questions designed to get yes/no type answers. So now I'm a bit pickier mostly because I do respond to friends discussions if they are posting something that I would want to answer. So I look at what they have posted or responded to so I have an idea. It's not personal to deny a friendship, realize that not everyone has the same tastes and if you are asking people who you haven't really done any interaction with, IE posting in their threads or they posted in yours, why would you ask?
• India
15 Jan 07
Nice answer and i feel too . we accept request but after sending request they forget that if we are in friend list atleast they have to answer their friend discussion . At least we expect these from our friend.
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
15 Jan 07
Well I did accept everyone as a friend when they applied now I don't. The reason? I had several that wanted to be a friend just so they could get me to post to their threads but they never posted to mine. Most of the time what they did have for discussions were one line questions designed to get yes/no type answers. So now I'm a bit pickier mostly because I do respond to friends discussions if they are posting something that I would want to answer. So I look at what they have posted or responded to so I have an idea. It's not personal to deny a friendship, realize that not everyone has the same tastes and if you are asking people who you haven't really done any interaction with, IE posting in their threads or they posted in yours, why would you ask?
@mageside (397)
• Japan
15 Jan 07
I also dont want to deny any friend request... I want to have lots of friends... Thanks!!!
@sunny5u (2069)
• India
15 Jan 07
I till now accepted all the friends,first of all i got one request but i had sent nearly 100 requests to all the people in mylot.
• India
15 Jan 07
thanks for ur response . i think u like to make a more friend .