Was I right....?
By opinder
@opinder (420)
India
January 15, 2007 2:09am CST
My boyfriend and I have a wondreful relationship; and are planning to get married too. But there is one thing that troubles me sometimes....i had a friend who had told me that he loved me. i stopped talking to him for fear of jeopardizing my relationship with my boyfriend. i had told my guy about it though. But i felt that he was feeling insecure (my boyfriend). My friend tried to talk to me and said he didn't mean to harm my relationship, and we could still be good friends. But I was mad at him and did not wish to talk to him as was having some problems with my boyfriend (not because of him). But he is a nice guy and we had been gud friends. sometimes I feel i was wrong in stopping to communicate with him. He promised not to call me or send any mails or messages....and he kept his promise...except for messages n new year and any other festival. I feel I have lost a wonderful friend......what do you feel...?
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6 responses
@The_Sexy_Kid (122)
• India
15 Jan 07
I think he was a real friend of yours and you shouldn't do this to him. Its fine that you dont love him but he is your friend. If your boyfriend really loves you then he will understand and will let you be friendly with your friend. Finally, the decision is yours. You should talk to him and for this, you don't have to break your relationship.
@anil_762001 (1636)
• India
15 Jan 07
the guy is your best friend you had and he really loves you and he do anything to keep you smile and happy.
@raveena (1353)
• India
15 Jan 07
Yes even I feel that you have lost a good friend. Infact in the first case you should not have informed your boyfriend about it. But now you cannot do anything about it so now that you have already decided in marrying your boyfriend it is better to forget that friend of your forever and not keep thinking about it.
@shinichi31 (126)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
i think you right you lost a wonderful friend. personally i dont see anything wrong when he said about his feeling to you anyway the decision is till yours. and he even tells you that he don't have any intention of ruining you relationship maybe your friend told you about his feeling just to let out the feeling he have from you nothing more nothing less.
