Do you believe in love at first sight???
By pearlypearl
@pearlypearl (95)
Indonesia
January 15, 2007 2:49am CST
Have you ever met someone and knew right then that he's the one you'd want to spend your life with? I believe that there's no love at first sight, it's pure crush. Love at first sight or i may reffer as crush from now on, can only happen when that someone is physically gorgeous or breathtaking. Love i think is a journey, where you learn to be with someone, how to adjust, and to share your life with someone. And in this process, i think, physical only play a very small part of being in love itself. So what do you think?
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@lmdiaz (2)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
To be honest, I once thought I fell in love with this guy when I first sas him. But later on I realized that during the process of getting to know him better, I became more and more convinced that love doesn't happen in just a blink of an eye... it's a process of growth and learning about someone on a deeper aspect. You begin to see that special someone in some way that you have never seen him before, and accept him for what he is and never try to change him. because if you try to change someone you love, you lose a part of what you fell in love withu in the beginning.
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@imrankhan9312595506 (24)
• India
16 Jan 07
hey friend.
this is imran khan from east delhi,
yes i beleive in love first sight, because i did love.
U knwo when i was 16 i saw a girl name rubana. i liked her and after some days i felt that i really love her . she had not love me she gone to saudi arabia after 2 , 3 months but i loved her every movment. after 6 year when she returned i proposed her then she refused my proposal and deniyed me. my heart broke in many parts.
i dont want ot tell more about my story but i can say yes first sight love is here.
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@TAURUSGIRL (735)
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15 Jan 07
i dont believe in love at first sight i didnt even see the love of my life i fell in love with the words she wrote to me so i believe in love at first contact
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@PlanetProzac (166)
• United States
16 Jan 07
No I think love is an action not a look. Lust will fade. I would rather be with someone interesting, trustworthy, and kind. If they are good looking too well that's okay too. The media really puts a lot of focus on looks more than good character, so it's no wonder so many people believe in love at first sight.
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@shaheenhirani (51)
• Pakistan
16 Jan 07
if you cant live without the person it may be attraction which only for physical reaction. but after you use physical relationship again you cant live its a real love. if u live without her/him. it was only physical attraction. bcos love is not attraction its Feeling. Nice Feeling
@kfg20012003 (1037)
• India
16 Jan 07
No i dont believe in love at first sight.Love is blind and it comes only through understanding one persons mind,and it would take time to do that may be a month ,a year or so to grasp all that the person has in quality and behaviour.So love doesnt comes for me at first sight
@pearlypearl (95)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 07
Hmmm...thx for you respond. My point exactly. I don't think love can happened only in a glance. It takes process to be in love with someone.
@pearlypearl (95)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 07
yup, like i've said before it's merely physical attraction. That's why i called it a crush, so far from love.
@ravinamita (132)
• India
16 Jan 07
Yes: I fully agree with this view. But it needn't necessarily be reciprocal. There are countless instances of one sided love at first sight. It often happens during the adolescent age, but rarely on maturity.
@verse80 (15)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 07
i dont know why... i dont believe with love at first sight.
it just untrue.. i just dont fit with that kind of things.. Sorry
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
15 Jan 07
I do not belive in love at first sight, attraction sure - but not love. love is something that takes a long time to develop and you need to know all about a person to love him. the person u see on the streets could be a serial-killer for all you know=)
I do belive that love is something wonderful and something that u have to work for. It can happen several times in life - but never at first sight!
@pearlypearl (95)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 07
Yes, it's an attraction that will gradually may turn to love, if we explore each other, getting to know someone better. There's no love just in a straight look or glance, it's pure attraction.
@cliffcliff (1350)
• United States
17 Jan 07
yeah, all the time, but they didnt feel the same!! i still have no wife!
@nanrezhel (43)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
i dont think its love at first sight, it is the feeling of the attraction physically that one feels.
@infomessenger (102)
• Pakistan
16 Jan 07
I have practical experience of this.some times it seems in first sight that you have found the person of your dreams but i guess thats not true.How can you you judge the person without knowing and spending some time with him/her.
As pearl said we can call it crush but not love.
@chancesare25 (13)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
same here! love is a very misterious phenomenon that can happen to a person, it's like flowers that grows each day and not instant.
@theone3nu (598)
• India
16 Jan 07
ya i met some people. i think it is just attraction. it is not actually a love. but we can make it as love by talking to them.
