help me plzzz..my best friend proposed me?? what to do??

Don't take the decision in a hurry. You don't talk to him for 2-3 day and busy yourself. In these 3 days if you remember him or not living without him then I think you also have some soft love toward him in your heart. Secondly you think if he good if you keep in her your in your wouldbe hubby place does he have those qualities . If yes then there is no harm in accepting his offer. It's my suggetion that you can marry that person who loves you not you love him.

He likes you? If yes, why not? is an xperience... ;)

mmm you should see if you want him otherwize tell him no

By going about your story it seems that the Guy "Amit" doesn't possess Good Looks. He may be intelligent but not smart in terms of his overall personality. I think you are an engineering student and you can wait for the nice guy to come to you. Don't take any decision in haste as they are to be given serious thought and any loose decision can spoil your life and career. You can take this as a freind advice.

if u like him u say s its the matter of u r life don't think that if i say no he'll feel and i'll loose a best friend in my life i'm giving that if u like his behaviour and other good qualities u say as ur wish nowadays love is all about the attraction and all and we r not founding a true love if u feel as he is feeling u 'll loose ur future and life do as u like its ur personal matter

you have to give it time...that's for sure. otherwise you'll ruin a relationship and lose a good friend. try to avoid himm for a few days. don't stress yourself too much over this. at times thinking too much also harms. just carry on with your normal routine....minus him(for a few days). since you are not committed to anyone, you could think of a future with him...where lies the harm?

Since he is your best friend it is normal that you would not want to lose him as a friend. So very gently tell him you love him as a friend and you dont see him in any other way. If you string him on your relationship will get strained. YOu have to tell him how you feel. There can be no 2 ways around this.

Hi there. I think you should have told him at that very moment, in a friendly way, with a smile, that you do not see him in such a way and consider him as a good friend, instead of getting tense yourself and raising his hopes. Tell him the truth. There is no point in prolonging your agony and keeping him in mystery. You know things like this happen in life. Go ahead and tell him.

we can only give suggestions. you have to take decisions what to do. i feel some more good solutions are yet to come.

If you have to ask how to respond to the proposal then your answer should be "no". Only when you are completely in love and completely sure you want to spend the rest of your life with someone should you answer yes

I want to say some thing if u think some anyone person who loves u and he not loves u so much he can hurt you and anyone you know that he loves you so much if you have not any lover before this this is so much opportunity for it so can think i idea u that marry with him and gave him so much love and your life full of happiness such oppertunities not come again think please thank you

The inevitable has happened. perhaps you never wished it. life is like that. then the way girls see friendship and boys see the same in India is different. I feel he could not understand you . But there is nothing wrong in him proposing to yousince it is the boy who always propose and how can u prevent it? think other way if anytime you had given a doubt to make him beleive that you love him? If you had a wish to marry him and if he ahd not proposed how would you have felt? All said and done now you are in a peculiar situation. either you may lose your friend and get a husband. Or you may lose both since very rarely you both can continue as the friends as you are now. That is you almost lost your friend so why not gain a husband?

are you currently boyfriends and girlfriends? i don't think so. then, why should he asked you for marriage? if you are just friends, i suppose so, then he would'nt have the nerve to do tHE proposing thing for a friend.

Since he is your best friend... u have 2 talk 2 him calmly. explain 2 him how important the friendship is to u. Tell him that right now u do not have any feelings appart from friendship for him... tell him maybe in time things may happen. but 4 the moment u definitely do not want to loose his friendship

how do you love your bestfriend? do you love him romantically or is it a platonic kind of love? sure, you must love your bestfriend, but it is one thing to love him as a friend, and another thing to be really in love. i hope i didn't add to your confusion. lol!

Ok first of all, I'm sure you must've noticed some signs that he was interested in you as more than a friend. And if so, you should've tried to putting a stop to it before he got any further to the point of wanting to marry you. I'm not saying that his actions are wrong, or that your actions are wrong, I'm just saying one person is going to hurt, or both of you are going to get hurt. If you don't feel the same way, you're going to have to tell him, because I wouldn't recommend saying yes just so you don't have to hurt his feelings. Maybe you could explain to him that you don't feel the same way, and ask if maybe you could still be friends. I know it's a tough call, but give it a shot and see where it leads you. :)

well do you love him you say you dont think of him that way maybe tell him you need to date him first if you are interested in any way

Well if you only like him as a friend try telling him that you want to wait and go on a few "real dates" first, cause you never looked at him in this angel, as a husband. If he loves you, he will understand.

Well I respect ur feeling and do understand ur concern. But i would only like to focus on the point that u say Amit is ur best frnd and only a best frnd can understand the feeling of a frnd better than anyone else. Now I think that u know ur frnd very well and if possible you should give Amit a chance, mau be like a very gud frnd he may turn out to be a very gud life partner. But if u cant accept him as ur life partner than u can always speak to him directly over this matter and I am sure that if he really loves you and respects you than he would continue to be your frnd rather than insisting further on the other relationship.

it all depends on you dear..if you really feel that he is the 1 with whom u want to spend all ur life then dont waste time n get hold of him n if u feel that he is not the one then atleast b true to him bcoz he is ur best frnd..isn't it???