Is my girlfriend cheating on me or not? PLS HELP!!!!

Romania
January 15, 2007 5:46am CST
I'm dating my girlfriend since we were 15 years old.Now we are 21.I really really love her,but i cant tell if she does too.Last year we moved for studying in Bucharest,the capital of Romania.She lives in one part of the City,and i live at the opossite side.We see each other a few times a week,and sometimes she sleeps at my place.So,the thing is that i noticed that she is always kind of sad,with her mind in other places.She doesn't smile all the time like she used to,and she spends much time with her roommates (3 girls).She sometimes cancels our dates to spend more time with them..or at least thats what she's telling me.I have to admit:i spyed on her one time,and she was with the girls,in student-bar,no boy around.So what the hell could be wrong? Please Help!
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• Thailand
15 Jan 07
With time the thigns changes, STOP SPYING on her and sit together and clear the issue, or you shall ruin your love life yar
• Romania
15 Jan 07
I did it just one time,when i could not stand this anymore.I did what you said several times,but she insists that nothing is wrong,just the pressure of the exams.But i can feel that something is wrong,she doesnt seem so interested in me anymore.What else could it be?
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@xelissa (776)
• New Zealand
16 Jan 07
If theres no trust theres no love. Give her the time she needs, and be understanding, its normal to want to hang out with other friends now and then. If its really irritating you, just ask her roomates
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@flordz (269)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
just trust her, its really annoying to find out that partners are spying on either both sides, even you i guess will hate it if you find out that your girl is spying on you. so if you really love her, even if how far is the distance between you and her, if you have trust, everything will be okay.