Which is worse...?
By gormanboy
@gormanboy (150)
Singapore
January 15, 2007 6:47am CST
Here is a really hard question that I always ask all my friends.. Which one of these is worse?...
A) Finding out that your boyfriend/girlfriend has cheated on you.
B) Suspecting that your boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating on you.
Think about it before you answer, your reply might not be what you expect...
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7 responses
@mzbubblie (3839)
• United States
15 Jan 07
This is hard when you think about it...To me the worst would be someone suspecting. Suspecting not knowing the fact, that person would worry themselves silly wondering what they doing or who they with etc even it may even harm the relationship as well which could lead to a possible break up. But in the other hand if they found out, depending on the person their heart is broken, they are sad and there is no telling the possibilities that could arise aterwards...I'd like to see this response..
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@thenonymous (6)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
Even though suspecting that your partner is cheating on you kills because there is nothing you can do about it, and you are on a stale (you shift from believing to not believing, and you end up anxious), I would still say A is worse. If my partner cheated on me, I really would find it difficult to trust again, even if we both know we actually still love each other.
But then again, if your partner really cheated, it would be good to actually know, so you both can make a decision of whether to work on the relationship together or to end it altogether.
@shigoto (69)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 07
Very hard to answer..
If you suspect your partner might have cheated you if in fact he/she :
1. DOES cheated you,it'd hurt,A LOT, since he/she is trying to cheat you on your back,without telling what is wrong with your current relationship.
2. DOES NOT cheated you,then you were wrong all the time,and that would hurt your partner instead,since you didn't trust him/her.
If you fount out your partner has cheated you,relate to answer #1 :D
Keeping a good relationship is harder than to find a new one.
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@imahustler999 (119)
• Singapore
17 Jan 07
Id say - B
why? because you dont know for sure. and if u accuse then welll you could be deep in shhit...
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@LiTeSpAwN (81)
• Philippines
19 Jan 07
Totally agree, finding out is more painful, I don't know if its the worst, but yeah, it hurts more.
@akprmillar (24)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
hmmmm.. it would not be wrong to say that suspecting is harder that finding out. it is true that it can make you go crazy and you wouldnt know what to do because nothing is factual yet. but for me finding out would be harder because it validates the painful reality that, well, your boyfried/girlfriend who is supposedly the one person who you can trust is cheating on you.
@Khyatii (237)
• United States
17 Jan 07
B)bc if is suspecion i would find out one way or the other .and there is always a possibality that he is not cheating ..i guess finding out ur bf is cheating on u is worse
