How to judge people
@sandeepnair85 (81)
India
January 15, 2007 8:10am CST
Hi guys. During our life we meet lots of people. We interact with them many people. How can we judge people. I know its difficult to judge a person from face. All will not be same. some would be kind, some would be cruel, some would be greedy, some would by helpful. So how to identify who is good and who is bad. What all qualities should we look into people. This will help me in identifying the people. Please help me
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@LadyLudie (359)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
People judge by the things they can see from the outside appearance of the person,but GOD don't.God sees the heart.I believe pure in heart reflects the actions of a person.the way he talk and treat people,the way of his living and how he deals with the community.
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@ashwanipareek (197)
• India
15 Jan 07
its not so easy for me but i never make fast decisions in this topic
@blueboy249 (428)
• Virgin Islands (U.S.)
30 Jan 07
well they say never to judge the book by its cover. soooo i would acually have to get to no a person to judge them lol..
@edelweiss (1929)
• India
19 Jan 07
You can't judge a person entirely. But you can judge him separately in pieces situation to situation.. It is very important to evaluate a person in different situations. Everyone has a different opinion for different situations. In some situations he will be agreeable to you and in some he will not.
So many people, som many situations, so many opinions.. Its a complex world.
@ktmpok (611)
• Nepal
16 Jan 07
i just judge them by looking there behaviour and their way of communication with other people...
@chabby (8)
• India
16 Jan 07
hi Guys ..this is good discussion..bcos we need to know the people's charector to with whome we meet these people are responsible for our change in attitude..first of all we need to know that it is very difficult to know once behaviour with in a small period..we should not b very open for the first time ..dont talk much just observe their likes and dislikes..dont take any moment to ur heart.especialy from gals..let the other person to talk more..just act like ur are accepting that ever other says....
@vamshees_vamshee (56)
• India
16 Jan 07
sure we interact with many of them we can judge people its difficult to judge a person but by doing the same friendship we can judge them
@vikashkumar (30)
• India
16 Jan 07
i think that we have to spend some time with them and lisen what he is saying then we can justify that the person is a good humen or a bad humen .
@raisushkr (1398)
• India
16 Jan 07
give time to know them dont rush there will b some chances where u can know them
@trialrun01 (644)
• India
16 Jan 07
it is not possible to judge people at all this is for the reason that everyone in this world acts differently in front of you and others and hence it takes a lot of time to understand the real personality and tendencies of anyone.
@wmaharper (2316)
• United States
16 Jan 07
usually you can tell what kind of person they are by the friends that they have, the people they associate with and how they act/talk. some people put up a phacade, and if you are not careful you will fall for it. I think with anyone it takes time to get to know them..
@inked4life (4224)
• United States
16 Jan 07
The only way to truly judge a persons character is to actually take the time to get to know them. Also, you can only judge based on what you like in a person...someone that you think is a bad person,could be someone that I think is nice.