if a fight occur between u and ur partner,who ll solve first?

@rsp9098 (755)
India
January 15, 2007 9:27am CST
will u calm down and forgive even if it is their fault or wait until he/she comes to talk?
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16 responses
@stailgate (2363)
• United States
18 Jan 07
It depends on what the fight was about. If it was about something silly, and I just was annoyed or something like that, I will go and applogise to my spouse. However, if I really believe in something that they were the one who was being a donkey, then I will wait for him to come and say he is sorry to me.
@opinder (420)
• India
17 Jan 07
whenever i have argument with my guy,its he who tries to calm me down. and when i know that something that i said or did must have hurt him, i apologise immediately. we both tell each other not to use the word 'sorry'.....so we have our own ways of verbal apology.
• India
17 Jan 07
i ll b d 1st 1 2 call 4 a ceasefire n try 2 solve it in d easiest n best manner possible coz i love ma gf a lot n don intend 2 hurt or loose her at any cost
@rovenn (69)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
to be honest, i havent been into a fight with my partner. but we have this kind of deal, that if ever we had one..we wont last the day without solving it. if it is my fault, i definitely make the first move and he will do the same way too.
@rovenn (69)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
to be honest, i havent been into a fight with my partner. but we have this kind of deal, that if ever we had one..we wont last the day with solving it. if it is my fault, i definitely make the first move and he will do the same way too.
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
i'm a forgiveful person, i don't mind if the one who comes first.
@milagre (1272)
• Portugal
15 Jan 07
When is my fault i go and ask to be firgiven, if it is his fault he say something. In case of doubt, i wit a few days and try to salve but not asking to be forgiven.
@mcarps79 (1262)
• Uganda
16 Jan 07
i fogive always my wife....actually who hv more patience will alwyas solve the problem....
@flordz (269)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
i always take the first move even if its my partner's fault, i just hate arguments, i always reach out just to end a nonsense fight.
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
It depends on who's at fault and who is under pressure. You have to learn to give and take and to understand each other. Basically, the one who is at fault should just shut up and say sorry. However, if he or she is at pressure and that must have triggered his/her bad attitude then the partner should not take the bad behavior against hi/her partner. Understand his/her pressures and help him/her cope up with it.
• United States
15 Jan 07
We are both very stubborn and opinionated. We usually cool down and then talk it out.
@mishang (498)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
when we argue, we really have this debate on things then afterwards, it's not about fault-finding, it's calming down, and then talk things out. i'm really not sure who goes first, but for us, it is spontaneous so it's not that big deal who goes first.
• India
15 Jan 07
I will judge the situation. I will do whatever I can do so that everything is fine again. Even if it includes waiting for the partner to say sorry I will do. I will keep in mind that the problem is solved and does not recoupe again .
• India
15 Jan 07
I will judge the situation. I will do whatever I can do so that everything is fine again. Even if it includes waiting for the partner to say sorry I will do. I will keep in mind that the problem is solved and does not recoupe again .
• India
15 Jan 07
everytime i fight with my girlfriend i just move out of the fight and dont talk to her for few min than she only comes and even ask sorry than we remain the same.we enjoy, it happens in life.
• Singapore
15 Jan 07
I will stand up and apologise fer anyn misunderstandin.. den goes on discussin wad's wrong.. In life there bound to have misunderstanding and fights bet pple..but the frequency of finding a partner tat realli suits u is real too low and thus we should realli treasure when he/she comes by.fer a minor quarrel to give up someone of such imptance to u.. izzit worth it?