what turns women on...

You know there are lots of things that can turn a gal on...A man that is on top of things that woulnt take no for an answer, but also isnt yelling and screaming like a girl! When she accomplishs something she's been trieing to accomplish for awhile. When somone does something for her because they wanted to not because she had to beg them! Someone who can make her laugh/smile, but that woulnt laugh at her when she feels dumb! Many many things!

to get her engind revving, it is totally in in mind. Small things that show that you respect her, care about her goals and desires, and that part of you is always thinking of her by being considerate and thoughtful. How to express these things through actions depends on the woman. Oh, and don't make it seem like you only do these things to get her in bed. Once she warmed up, tender caresses, ear nibbling, lightly tracing a feather or other soft object over her skin are all good. THe most important thing though, be very generous in bed, Care more about her enjoyment than yours. DOn't be selfish in bed reach your climax and be done. If she hasn't hit hers yet, you better come up with something. Better still, make sure she finishes before you!

Mutual desire, right time, right place and the right woman. It is not dependent on what one has below belt, but it is in the mind. The key is there and ignition has to be turned on in the mind for super activity.