What Would You Do?? If Your Significant Other Left You Alone in a New City??

Wow! That does say a lot about the marriage! I would probably first find an area close by to give him a chance to cool off and come back to me. During that time, I would be sitting there thinking about my relationship. What we had a fight about...and if I were in all the wrong. And if I were not, then I would get up and go do something else. Now, if he left me there and flew back to the States without me. The marriage would definitely be over!!!! But if he left me by walking off, my relationship would definitely be on shaky ground! There would have to be some serious talking/communication to fix just being dumped in a place that I could not cummunicate to others to find me way back to the hotel!!! Heck! Given that thought...when I made it back to the hotel, I would probably be pcking to go back to the States myself!!!

I would use my own credit card to book myself into a another Hotel, have a few drinks, pamper myself in the Hotel spa and thoroughly enjoy myself! I would turn my phone off for a day or so too, so tat he couldn't get hold of me when he cooled off and tried to!!!

I have always dreaded this, and have wondered what would I do? Especially if I did not know anyone and had no $$ to get back. And then if was someone like your husband, significant other, etc. that you live with, and they choose to stay mad at you, then you have no where to live, etc. on top of it. But I am sure that things like this have happened many times, and will continue to happen. I just would not want to be the one.

I could survive without a doubt but thats what I do - survive - things dont hold me down or back so I would manage without a doubt. My husband however would definately want to run for his life 'cause i would most certainly be kicking his everloving once I got a hold of him.

first is to check how much money you have,for you to know what are the things you can only do, go to the police and ask directions

i would go out and find somebody to have a nice night with since it seems that the guy doesn't care. myt as well make the most of it..

I'm not sure if this question is more aimed at women or not but either way I guess I'll answer it. If me and my wife were to go to another country and somehow get into a fight and she walked off and left me standing in the street I think I'd just stand there for a min. After the shock wore off I'd be more worried about her and where she went then where I'd go. I would honestly be more worried about her and her safety than my own. I can always find a hotel or somewhere to stay. I guess for me the reason why I'd be more worried about her than me is if we got into a fight bad enough for her to walk away from me in foreign country I must have really pissed her off. Her mad here is enough to deal with her mad at me in another country, yea I'd go find her.

It might seem bad tobe left alone in unknown city but a person could be able handle situation on their on. I if left of alone I can handle it 100 percent for return and work to be carried out their. If doesnot depends on the person who left.

last new year i went for a holiday with my bf & his frend. we end up fighting there. he left me there alone but lucky - that place i went there couple of times with my other frends. after that he came and find me..and now we break up

Ya definitely i whould have survived if i had money cause atleast by paying some money i would have learnt that language and then i would have seen all the cities over their and then i would have caught the flight and would have come back to the place where i came from.

then let him know that u do not want to be felt out and if he does, u will never join a vacation with him again, or better yet,,, take your mom, sister, brother or bestfriend with u next time

I'd head home probably, if i couldn't get in contact with my spouse. I'd probably have a long talk if we met back up or if we met up at home. It would really hurt a marriage though.

It happened me once in Tamil nadu in SOuth India,horrible experience to recollect it, I tried to foreget it

It's a new city, go explore, do something fun. Who's to say you can't live alone? You've lived alone all your life before you got married to the guy who left you there alone so make the best of it! What are you going to do? Sit in the streets and wallow in self pity while your significant other is out there making the best of the holiday?! Otherwise, just take the next flight home.

I'd call my family, in my case my dad since mom is gone already, I know my family would help get me back home. However if in a foreign land I'd contact the American embassy to get help to get back home. Then I'd sue the crap outa the person who stranded me...

well, i believe in my husband enough to know he would never walk out on me. and if he did leave the room for a while, i'd just either shop in the hotel or stay in the room, but i KNOW he'll come back to me. he's just not the kind of guy who would abandon anyone like that. but thats just horrible that someone out there would even do that. i think the marriage would be in trouble and he would have to work hard to earn her trust again.

I would pack up and go abck home. If my sig other let me leave I would end the relationship right away. What kind of person would do that to somebody?

Ohh dear ... I had this happen .. we were engaged .. we fell out on the plane and by the time we got to the hotel we weren't speaking ... By breakfast the next morning it was obvious we had parted company ... and we had two weeks holiday to get through .. he went on the beach all day ... I went out and about visiting quaint Spanish towns and villages .. I know this sounds bad, but that was the very best holiday i had ever had with him and we had been engaged for about 5 years and had gone on holiday at least twice a year ... I never realised Spain could be so much fun until we ditched each other .. hahahaha

well i ll just move on..there's no point in sitting n crying..just carry on with ur life..u can definitely make new frnds out thr...

I would go to the airport because there's always people that speak english, ask for help there, and if I don't have enough money yo stay in the city, I would go back to my country.