are you Jealous sometimes? is that being immature?

You're normal, so don't worry about it; and you are not emotionally immature. A little bit of jealousy in the early stages of a relationship, as you described feeling when you are getting to know someone new, is normal. It is a sign of insecurity and lack of trust. I think that this is normal at this point because you don't know the girl yet; you don't know what her intentions are or if she is trustworthy. You don't know for sure how she's feeling about you, and even if she has told you, how do you know if you can believe it... Hopefully you don't go into a jealous tyrade about it- it would be OK to casually mention it and see how she responds, but it might scare her off if you act too possessive too soon. As you get to know a person and develop a feeling for who and what they are, and you begin to trust them, I would think that the jealousy would diminish. I'm still single, also, and I don't feel that I'm emotionally immature- I'm cautious and careful, because I've been around too many jealous men to count. I have this problem whenever I start seeing someone, because my very closest friend is a man that I dated years ago. We started out as friends, then become romantically involved for about a year, and when that didn't work we remained friends. We've been just friends for about 7 years now, and there is NO WAY that we would ever become intimate again. We're too good as friends. Sure, we hug when we see each other-nothing more. We talk almost every day. We know each other better than we know ourselves. I know his girlfriends and he knows whoever I'm dating. If they don't like it, tough... Many men have had a problem with this. I can't believe I'm rambling on like this!!! I must just be in the mood to talk. I'd better stop and go call someone!

Well,being jealous is normal when u love a person.but too much is not good also.Sometimes,we are jealous because we are insecure.And lack of trust with our someone.But there is still a chance to change this attitude as long as we know how to do it.

yeah!!! jealous is a form of a insecurity... sometimes its just in your mind... Jealousy is one of the reason of breaking up in a relationship... try to avoid it... there is no good effect of it..

Jealous is a form of insecurity, especially in a relationship. When someone is secure in their relationship there is no need for jealousy.

No, jealousy doesn't necessarily implies immaturity. Jealousy is a human's natural feeling of envy. You envy those guys whom your girlfriend gives her attention to. Jealousy is natural and harmless if it doesn't lead to violence. I used to be very jealous of my husband, especially at the start of our relationship. But later on, he had prove to me by constantly discussing this issue that he's really into me. And somehow I manage to put aside my jealousy now. Sometimes I can laugh heartily with those topics ot issues that made me jealous in the past. I'm kind of use to it now. I think you feel jealous because you and her are still new to each other, but later on when confidence and trust will build, jealousy will subside. That's what I hope.

being jealous to someone you're not committed to is really immature. even if she's your girlfriend and you're being jealous for some unreasonable facts, that is also immature. besides, you don't have the right to be jealous of it since she's not even yours. it's not right to feel that way.

i don't think jealousy is a sign of being immature 'cause it's a normal feeling to feel jealous sometimes but they say also that jealousy is a sign of insecurity which i believe part of it is true. there's many ways why feel jealous so there's also many ways to put it in context

I wouldn't say it's immature- it's just the way we sometimes react about things. Sometimes jealously controls our emotions.

Hello cliff. I would have to say- I'm quite a jealous person too. Not only with partners or boyfriends, but even friends! But as I lived on my life- I realized a lot of things. Being jealous doesn’t really make me feel any better, if anything- it even makes me feel worse. And I learned that jealousy tends to drive some people away- depending of the situation that you’re into. I lost a boyfriend once because I was too jealous. It's really not nice having to hold people on their necks. They need their personal space too. I would say that jealousy is indeed a sign of immaturity- because if you're mature enough and you know the real score between you and someone- then I don’t think you will be rushing into your jealous spells… Part of growing up is respecting other people’s spaces. But I don’t think that you are still single because of that… try going out and have relationships, friendships with various people to try to correct your jealousy- Maybe you just need further practice on the relationship aspect for you to grow. =)

I understand how you feel, according to my boyfriend that jealous is normal as long as you control it and right, it comes from insecurity. But it doesn't mean it will ever be gone once you're in a relationship, it would also depend on how much you trust the person you're going to be with.. It doesn't mean that way, lot of teenagers emotionally immature are in a relationship. Actually love will just come by, you don't have to look for it.. I mean I guess you'll feel a bit jealous because you have feelings for that person and you have that fear of losing her..