Are you still in love with your husband/wife/s.other??

Love - Are you in Love?
@devideddi (1435)
United States
January 15, 2007 12:34pm CST
It has albost been 20 years now and I am still in love with my husband. Sometimes in a relationship the "in love" part turns into a deeper type of love. But thats not the same as being in love with a person. Don't get me wrong...sometimes I just can not stand him and I know I can drive him pretty crazy sometimes too. We have ups and downs just like everyone else. But its true, after all these years I am still in love.
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@coolmom (43)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
After almost 18 years of marriage with my husband, i am still in love with him. Actually i feel that i love him more than we got married, maybe because we've already surpassed all kinds of trials in life. We understand each other better now.
@berry9 (590)
• India
24 Jan 07
too sweet.years can only increase the love.there is no way it can bring down the love.no dont worry he must be loving you the sameway.to me love is something that can never change because it is very forgiving in nature.marraige is a bond for 1000 births to come next.in hinduism it is beleived so.when im married il tell you how it feels to be loved and how great I feel lol.
• United States
24 Jan 07
It has been 30 years for me, and we are still very much in love and close.
@linds_k (10)
• United States
20 Jan 07
I am very much in love with my husband still. We have been married 5 years and together for 9, and have two kids.
@matlgal (1686)
• United States
24 Jan 07
That's so nice to hear in this age of frequent male or spouse bashing. I agree with you some days I don't "LIKE" him at all but I will always LOVE him. The depth of love grows as we grow and fit and snuggle into each others lives. Contimued success to you and your Hubby, you sound very happy.
• India
24 Jan 07
Thats not a big thing.. that getting love with the hus/wife.. because.. here in tamil nadu.. every womens are record breaking..living with one husband.. more than 50 years.....too.. and more.. and thats good.. to.. i really appreciate..you.. for ur living with ur husband.. sorry i cant say for me.. because i am not married.. and since waiting for a good chance.. that tohappen in my life.. friend..
• United States
20 Jan 07
Congratulations dear. It was so nice of you to share that. I am married 30 years, and we have a very strong and loving marriage too.
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
17 Jan 07
No, I am not. Sorry....but true. My partner and I have a lot of history and have been to hell and back together. But there has been so much damage done that I am no longer in love with him. Sure, I love him and will always love him. But that love has changed with the injury to my heart and self esteem. But we have children involved and stay together for their sake at this time. Plus, I think he is scared of being alone...he has told me that himself. If someone tells you that they would rather be unhappy than be alone, it kinda puts a damper on what can be done for a relationship.
• United States
18 Jan 07
The answer here for me is yes, I am still truly in love with my husband. We have been together for 10 years now, we have 2 of our own children and 2 that we have adopted. We like you have had our ups and downs but they have just made us closer. I am still deeply in love with my husband after all that we have been through.
• United States
18 Jan 07
Congratulations, not many people can say the same. I hope 20 years + down the road, I will be able to share the same happy story. But for right now...I am completely in love and continue to fall in love with my baby every single day. It's overwhelming at times, but when it is true love, you just cannot help it. I am still in love with the love of my life, he is absolutely the best!!!
• United States
19 Jan 07
I myself have only been married for almost three years now. And it has been hard going. We are young and both have kids from previous relationships. There are many bumps in the road and getting to know each other as we grow and change. I do everything I can to keep that "fire burning". But it definetly takes COMMITMENT. Do I love him? With all my heart...am I "in love" with him? Sometimes and those times make up for any rough times.