Should I help her?

Nigeria
January 15, 2007 1:19pm CST
I have a friend who is married for over five years now. He is my best friend and I love him so much but there is an unusual demand from his wife. They have not been able to have a baby because the my friend can not perform as a man. The problem started second year to their marrage and they have sought for madical attention all to no avail. His wife wants me to go to bed with her so that at least she can have a baby. My friend does not know what is going on between me and his wife and this woman is mounting pressure on me. I want the whole house to advice me, should I help her?
6 responses
mikaghi
@mikaghi (388)
• United States
15 Jan 07
don't do it, it will destroy all three of u.suggest adoption or IVF to them
eyeruroma
@eyeruroma (29)
• Nigeria
17 Jan 07
Thank you. What of if she does it with another man?
khanfaisal79
@khanfaisal79 (143)
• Pakistan
17 Jan 07
This is rediculous. You should not even think about it. Just stop meeting your friend's wife and dont attend any of her call.
forfein
@forfein (2507)
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15 Jan 07
WOW!! This is fraught with danger my friend!! The child will look NOTHING like him! Do you not think he will smell a rat?
teddyberry82
@teddyberry82 (654)
• United States
17 Jan 07
all 3 of you need to talk things out then the couple needs to talk about the next steps to do.
donnaheff
@donnaheff (158)
• Nigeria
15 Jan 07
boy dont, just pray for her
milosmom
@milosmom (60)
• United States
16 Jan 07
that's terrible! you shouldn't even consider doing that to a friend. if she wants a baby so bad there are lots of kids out there that need a good home. they could adopt.