Heart break recovery?
By renascent
@renascent (35)
Canada
4 responses
@OffSpring26 (31)
• United States
16 Jan 07
- Through away all things that remind you of him or the relationship.
- Avoid everyway to meet or run into him.
- Everytime he comes in your mind, try to remember all the bad fact about him like things he had lied, tricked .. on you, his bad habits, bad smell ...
- Make and keep a good hope, thinking that everything happens for a reason. If you and he broke, it probably because you are not really right person for each other on the long run. So you 2 must be separated so you'll find your right one in the future ... And keep waiting for that person to come in your life ... (meanwhile, love yourself, do good things for yourself, feel good about yourself ... without the need of another person)
@renascent (35)
• Canada
16 Jan 07
The moment he left his photos, my ring and everything was put away and some things tossed. I don't live near him and I have never contacted him or vice versa since he left a few months ago. I am not into being reminded anymore than I am daily by the memories surrounding me at home here. Thank you for the comment and I do hope there is someone out there to appreciate the love I have to give. :)
@zeloguy (4911)
• United States
16 Jan 07
Keep as far away as possible. Do things he/she and you did together is a no-no. Love will catch up with almost everyone whether they like it or not and the BEST way to overcome a broken heart is to mend it with someone who is better than the person who broke your heart in the first place.
@renascent (35)
• Canada
16 Jan 07
I live an hour away and never have spoken to him or seen him since. I told him when we were together that if he ever broke my heart, I'd never be his friend and he'd never hear from me or see me again. Unless it's a mutual break up trying to be friends to me, is just not in the cards. I don't see how anyone can heal by doing that. Thanks for your input. :)
@xcmatx (173)
• United States
15 Jan 07
talking to friends, going out, doing what you enjoy, and music. Getting a pet would help greatly. Taking care of a pet and playing with it would surely take your mind off what you're going through. Or even volunteer at an animal shelter, or anywhere. Just keep yourself busy.
@fairytopia88 (175)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
When I was in this situation before. I dealt with it by working and working hard, staying close to friends, pampered myself more!
Be in touch with friends and go out with them. At that stage I didnt allow myself to be alone. I always have activities instore for me everday for a month.
I was so busy with work, friends,shop, pampering my self.
I would go to saloon and have a facial care, a body scrub a good hair cut.
I would watch concerts, movies, hang out in a bar or maybe just hang out with friends and have someone you can talk with all the time. And go to church all the time!
After a month i saw that ex of mine who caused my broken heart. to my surprise, im not hurt anymore..im over HIM.
I think it worked.
