wat do u think about ur marriage within ur relation??????
By 24tanmay
@24tanmay (68)
India
January 15, 2007 4:04pm CST
i m asking u that question bcoz i love my cousin & want to marry her,bt i m facin many objections frm my family,wat'll i do,plz help......
6 responses
@spreadout (127)
• Nigeria
16 Jan 07
The legality of Marrying your cousin depends on two factors:
1.Your Religion(Christians forbids it,while Islam allows it)
2.Your culture(Some cultures allow it while others condemn it)
So the bottom line is this,you have to take into cognizance this two factors before starting anything,if your religion and culture allows it,then goodluck but if your culture and religion forbids it,please don't do it,it will only bring misery to both you and the innocent girl
@knights_of_honour (348)
• India
15 Jan 07
Hey man dont try to be so adventorous but i think in india marrying cousins are not legally allowed. so keep this point in mind as well.
@hiitssomu (657)
• United States
15 Jan 07
actually it has good and bad aspect both. if you both really love each other, then i would say go ahead and marry her. there are some country where we have lots of restrictions of getting married your cousin. i am not sure whether you have to face that or not. i just want real love should won the match. there will be lots of problem for this decision, but you have to face if you love her.
Now the question is why our ancient people didn't encourage marriage withina same family or relation. because if you pick up two people from a same family and try to do a DNA analysis, you will find most of the DNA orientation is same. now if these two person marry each other, the DNA orientation would not be so good in their child, which in terms cause to several problems, if you have two different types of DNA, that actually helps to get imptoved DNA in your child. s this is the bad effect of getting married between same family. now you can think off.
@orangepeel (90)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
Now, there would be a problem if you two, are first degree cousins (due to genetic problems your child might acquire in the future) but nonetheless, If you two are happy, then forget about others! It s not them who would live with the person--you are!
Also, I have a cousin who also married a fellow cousin of ours. Currently, they are happily married for 2years already!
@hamzee (29)
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15 Jan 07
well it depends on th religion u r from n the culture.if its allowed then u should go 4 it if u both love it n hope 2 hav a good realtionship then go 4 it.although medically it is not adviseable.