Do any of you homeschool?
@prettypinkbug (437)
United States
January 15, 2007 6:53pm CST
If you homeschool your children could you please drop me a line and tell me about your days at home with your children. My extremely bright son will be a "kindergartner" in the fall, and we are going to homeschool him. Would you let me know your reasons for homeschooling as well?
2 people like this
10 responses
@FiredUp (270)
• United States
16 Jan 07
I have homeschooled. The only reason I am not homeschooling my grandson now is because his doctors wanted to see how he would do in school. We may go back to it next year. He has some difficult medical problems. Anyway, I homeschooled my daughter through high school and I homeschooled my grandson last year and the beginning of this year. I wouldn't trade the experience for anything. With my daughter it was easy. She was highly intelligent and almost taught herself. We got very close in the process. My grandson was harder because he is ADHD. But as soon as I learned to let him learn his way, it went better. The key is just to relax and have fun with your child. I alternated "boring" subjects ones that got him up and moving. It is the best thing you can do with your child. Enjoy!!!
2 people like this
@ItTakesAllSorts (4096)
•
23 Jan 07
It's interesting reading why parents have decided to home school their kids.
I have a question though. How do you feel about them missing out on the social aspect of school.
I know you want the best for your children but meeting other kids that your kids choose to have as friends is part of growing up as well.
I find it sad that a teacher has said that they have home schooled their children. If the education system is so bad, can't the very people who teach it stand against it and make a change.
We have the same problems in the Uk. Schools are being divided now because of middle class families fighting to get their kids into the best schools.
They have the money to be able to move to the areas or the knowledge in how to beat the system, while so many working class kids are missing out.
Shouldn't every school be the same. The whole thing really annoys me.
I work in education and am constantly ranting about the state of our system but there is no united front over it.
Now so many parents are disillusioned they prefer to home school.
Its sad times to see how in todays world with so many advances we have fallen behind in the one thing every child is entitled to, a good education.
I used to be against home schooling but after seeing how my own children are bored, unmotivated and just taught to the test I now understand why some parents take this option.
I hope it works out well for your child.
1 person likes this
@wahmbrendamh (576)
• United States
24 Jan 07
Schools really are boring for children. Where else in life do you have to sit still for hours on end without moving? Teachers are then using ADHD meds to keep these children sitting still so that they can teach them how to pass a test. Most of the information on the test isn't even stuff that you'd use in real life. To top it off most of the day is spent by the teachers doing paperwork so then the children have so much homework to do at night that they don't have time for extracurricular activities. They certainly don't have time to socialize in school either because recess is so short and so is lunch and the time between classes. So where are these public school kids getting socialized? On the other hand, homeschool children can do their schoolwork in only a few hours a day so that they have most of their day to go out and do things. When you look at it this way, homeschool children really are the ones who are having time and getting socialized, not the institutionalized school children.
Brenda Marie
Homeschool 4 Us (My homeschool blog): http://homeschool4us.blogspot.com/
My ebook: "Homeschooling Without The Headaches" http://stores.lulu.com/store.php?fAcctID=812683
@ItTakesAllSorts (4096)
•
24 Jan 07
Thanks for your response.
I understand what you are saying I just wish the government would wake up and realise the mistakes they are making.
No wonder so many kids are diagnosed ADHD. Having to sit for hours on end is no way a child should be taught.
I am studying classroom talk at the moment and our kids are subjected to limited expression and 80% of their lessons are questions set by teachers that just initiate a single response.
Kids are not being taught how to critically think and problem solve anymore.
I can fully understand why you left and took your kids out of this kind of education system. By what you have said about your home schooling system it's ashame schools are not like this too.
Cheers!!
1 person likes this
@jenmparrott (36)
• United States
24 Jan 07
Unfortunatly it is not just up to the teachers. We are small in the pecking order and cant get much done. I tried and therefore, I quit after gruling years trying to get things changed. Teachers are called to do that job and they also do the best that they can. I am saying this knowing that some dont but most do. It is up to alot of people to change the system but in the mean time I will not subject my children to a lousy system.
As far as socialization, we have many homeschooling groups and they have lots of friends. They dont have to sit in a classroom being quiet to get socialization. In fact you can teach them more socialization in true life situations.
1 person likes this
@wahmbrendamh (576)
• United States
20 Jan 07
I am a single mother, homeschooling my 5yo. She's in 1st/2nd grade. We do a lot of fun things instead of always sitting down to do text or workbooks. I think that if you keep things fun you dc will establish the love of learning and then from there the sky is the limit.
Brenda Marie
Homeschool 4 Us (My homeschool blog): http://homeschool4us.blogspot.com/
My ebook: "Homeschooling Without The Headaches" http://stores.lulu.com/store.php?fAcctID=812683
1 person likes this
@smalltownmtngirl (327)
• United States
16 Jan 07
I too have been considering homeschooling my daughter. She would also be in kindergarden in the fall. In my opinion, homeschooling is a much better way to go, as far as education for your children. In my research over this past year, I have found that people whose children were in public school and then taken out to be homeschooled did not even have the knowledge they should have for their grade level. Someone I know, there son was in the 8th grade when they decided to homeschool. When he took the initial test, he was only at the 4th grade level. They do not teach the children what they should be learning. Teachers do not keep their jobs if their students do not pass, so they are passing these children for their own sake. They don't care if the children acctually learn or not. On another note, there is also the violence and abuse in the schools. Metal detectors, security...I would say that would make for a very stressful day. I could really go on and on and on about why I think homeschooling is so much better, but I'll stop here :) If you've read this far, Im impressed!
1 person likes this
@prettypinkbug (437)
• United States
16 Jan 07
I could go on and on as well. I too am worried about school violence. My husband had never thought of homeschooling in the past, but now he is convinced that it is the best thing. Keep in touch. Send me a message later and let me know how it goes if you decide to do it. We will most likely homeschool both of our children and must "officially" start this fall with our son.
2 people like this
@smalltownmtngirl (327)
• United States
16 Jan 07
I have found a really good yahoo group for homeschoolers in my area. Maybe there is one for in your area too. It great to get the socialization the kids need. They also trade text books and things like that. Check out your yahoo groups. :)
1 person likes this
@mydogisdaisy (99)
• United States
18 Jan 07
We started homeschooling our son in the third grade. We was having issues with other students (one boy actual choked him) and they kept saying he needed to be treated for ADD. There were many other circumstances that led his to the decision, but these were the two major ones.
Just keep your learning hands on and fun and you will do great. In a few years you can add on a little structure at a time and teach him to work independently. We love taking trips to the museum and library.
Homeschooling is a lot of work, but it is worth it. I work two jobs along with homeschooling. I am fortunate to work for two businesses that allow me to bring my son with me.
HAGD
Crystal
1 person likes this
@deberooney (418)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I have a son who happens to have special needs. The school was a living he!! for him. He lasted 2 days...his K teacher grabbed him and shook him when he wouldn't come into the classroom. He still screams when we drive past that place. He is homeschooled now and doing fantastic!
@prettypinkbug (437)
• United States
23 Jan 07
That is a horrible story! I can't believe a teacher would do that to a child. I think that it being only 2 days into the school year also says alot about the kind of person she is. Maybe she chose the wrong profession. Did they take any action against her? I hope they did. I'm glad to hear that he is doing well now.
@wahmbrendamh (576)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I didn't think that teachers were allowed to use physical punishment. That makes me sooo angry to hear that this happened. Thank God he's homeschooled now.
Brenda Marie
Homeschool 4 Us (My homeschool blog): http://homeschool4us.blogspot.com/
My ebook: "Homeschooling Without The Headaches" http://stores.lulu.com/store.php?fAcctID=812683
@deberooney (418)
• United States
24 Jan 07
We are in WI and the school district actually told the police that it was a private matter to be dealt with internally! The entire investigation took about an hour in which they told me...and I quote here..." Mrs. *J* has not had any Autism training therefor she did not know how to handle your son. She feels terrible about the whole situation and can't wait to see *A* in class tomorrow." NOW what kind of mother would I be to just take him back to that place the fallowing day? I have written letters to everyone from the Department of Public Instruction to the govenor! I hear nothing! The DPI said that it was not done miliciously and I should re-enroll him...NOT HAPPENING@ Funny that she could do this and blame his disabillity...wonder what she does to kids without one? Scarey huh?
@wahmbrendamh (576)
• United States
22 Jan 07
I agree with prettypinkbug. A normal life doesn't mean being locked inside of an institution for 8 hours a day, 5 days a week only to come home and have to do more school work because your teacher was too busy taking care of "policies" to teach.
Brenda Marie
Homeschool 4 Us (My homeschool blog): http://homeschool4us.blogspot.com/
My ebook: "Homeschooling Without The Headaches" http://stores.lulu.com/store.php?fAcctID=812683
@prettypinkbug (437)
• United States
22 Jan 07
"A normal life?" What exactly does that mean to you? I don't see how he can't lead a normal life. Do you understand how school systems are failing children these days? I don't think you do. I'm sure by saying "let him have a normal life" you mean send him to school. Obviously, you don't know enough about homeschooling families to make an educated response to this discussion because if you did you wouldn't have said what you did.
@deberooney (418)
• United States
23 Jan 07
What perfect planet do you live on?????? My autistic son was grabbed and shook by his Kindergarten teacher..hmm if this is normal count me out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@minerc (1373)
• United States
23 Jan 07
I home school My Son, I pulled him out of the Public School the begining of his 5th grade year, I have no regrets with this. See in the Public School he was Diagnosed ADHD, second grade, I tried Meds but I just didnt see my child while he was on them, I took them off and he did great His 3rd grade teacher was awesome, His 4th grade teacher was good to, I started Subbing at the School and if she had issues she would send him to my class and he did great. The 5th Grade Teacher she wanted him on the Meds, she continuelly put him around kids that would pick on him, he would get suspended while the other kid got no punishment, I talked to the principal to change classes she refused, she told me if I didnt like the class take him out of the school and put him into another. So I did, I teach him. When he was tested he tested at a 3rd grade level in Language Arts, and he tested at a 7th grade level at math, the other subjects he was on Grade Level. He is up to Grade Level on Language Arts now, and is on 7th still in Math. I teach him beyond the materials that they give me for HomeSchooling, we do alot of fun activities and he is doing so well, I have 2 step daughters one the same age as my son the other a year older, who go to public school and when they come over they like to sit with him while I am teaching so they can learn to. Good Luck
@ScrappinHappyMom (914)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I homeschool my son using an online public school in our state. I will say that homeschooling is not easy, it takes extreme discipline and scheduling. You have to make sure that child not only gets educated but also is in group activities to gain social skills. But I think the rewards out way the negatives.
@UmmBinyamin (419)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I dont have kids but i am homeschooled its really good its kinda fun u dont have to get up to early u can have fun and be dun earli and still play and yeah home schooling is for a "NORMAL LIFE" but its good because u dont want ur kid gettin sick from other kids at school and stuff like that and home schoolin is simple
@wahmbrendamh (576)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I'm glad that you piped up and shared your positive experience. I think that a lot of "children" do have these experiences and that they should share them whenever they can. Thanks!
Brenda Marie
Homeschool 4 Us (My homeschool blog): http://homeschool4us.blogspot.com/
My ebook: "Homeschooling Without The Headaches" http://stores.lulu.com/store.php?fAcctID=812683
@prettypinkbug (437)
• United States
24 Jan 07
Thanks for your real life homeschool comment. I love to hear from kids and adults that have been homeschooled. It makes me feel like I am making the right choice. I'm sure everyone has a relative or two who just doesn't understand. The big issue with these people is the "socialization" issue, but it really isn't an issue. All of these comments to my discussion have really made my day. Good luck to you all!