friendship
By thatmom2
@thatmom2 (126)
United States
January 15, 2007 8:35pm CST
how do you tell someone that you really arent interested in being there friend without hurting there feelings..?
5 responses
@NinjaRossi (334)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
Well the easiest thing you can do is LIE. Make up excuses not to hang out with them. Stuff like that. But what you SHOULD do is just tell the truth. Yes, you may come off as a jerk. But you wouldn't hesitate being his/her friend if he/she is nice as well, right? You get me? There must be a reason that you won't like to be that person's friend.
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@thatmom2 (126)
• United States
16 Jan 07
yeah i have tried, but nothing. we dont have anything in common, and i find myself being rude, and that not my thang. no matter how i say it in my head, it sound rude, and i know she doesnt have many friends. im trying to hang inthere but phew..she makes it harder and harder everytime i speak to her. of maybe its just me...maybe im set in my ways..i dontknow..anyway thanks for the advice.
@NinjaRossi (334)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
She doesn't have any friends? Wow, something must really be wrong with her. Why don't you start with that? Tell her why you find it hard to be her friend. Maybe then will she realize that she has to change a few things to gain friends.
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
16 Jan 07
If there is a reason then tell them what that reason is. Be honest.
"I have a hard time being friends with someone who mistreats me," for example.
