smart love
By thien_se82
@thien_se82 (11)
United States
January 15, 2007 9:04pm CST
i've already read a book by Drs. Les & Leslie parrott (relationship).. what a good book. it's describe all about relationsip. your relationship with your family, GOD, friend or your girl/boy friend. he said that when you truly fall i love with someone, you would lose your mind. smart love means that you realize that you can't change people, smart love mean that you might fight or yelling to your love, smart love doesn't try to change your self to pleasure him/her, smart love doesn't hide from conflict or crash... finally, a smart love knows that you can't love someone with the same way it's occur.. cause love is change.. so what do you think about a smart love? have you been through it??
2 responses
@kesfylstra (1868)
• United States
16 Jan 07
I have "Getting Ready for the Wedding" by them, but I found that a little strange. Have you read Bill Hybels "Fit to be Tied"? That is excellent also.
I think the point of most Christian marriage counselors is that marriage is something that needs to be worked at. I don't like the term "falling" because that makes love something that happens to you, whereas I believe love is something to actively do. That, I think, is the foundation of smart love.
@thien_se82 (11)
• United States
16 Jan 07
yup... i agree wit ur opinion. hav u ever read "saving your marriage before it start by Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott".... i learn much after read that book.
@malaekat2an (526)
• Indonesia
16 Jan 07
smart love ? what's that ? when i trully fall in love with someone, i don't know what to do, i'll just let love lead the way. But seeing your enthusiasm, i think that book are worth to be read.
