a rude relationship
By nic073
@nic073 (70)
Philippines
January 16, 2007 12:02am CST
i really hate it when i wake up in a good mood and everything's just going fine then comes the ring on the phone and when i answer it my boyfriend goes"are you waiting for someone to call?" ugh. i hate it there's just simply no trust in our relationship and the worst part is, he just bangs the phone on me even when i did NOTHING!! i really think he's such a sick loser, i hate him, i wanna break up but he doesn't wanna. i hate his rudeness and i feel so depressed when im with him.
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11 responses
@jagdishrajan (189)
• India
16 Jan 07
Do not get affected by the rude behaviour of your boyfriend. If he is your friend, accept him for his strengths as well as his weakness. Not having trust in you is his weakness. Maybe you have to do some inquiry within to find out the reason that could have made him feel that way. He may be in love with you madly and may be possessive about you. You have to silently accept his misbehaviour. later when he knows the truth that you also love him so much, he would definitely feel ashamed of his act. Dont break relationship with such a trivial matter. Be calm and composed. It is true that you are also depressed, but it is good to be patient rather than being impulsive. Do weigh the good in him with the bad in him and if the good things are more, do ignore the bad things. Good Luck
@purnima175 (435)
• India
17 Oct 09
Do not get affected by the rude behaviour of your boyfriend. If he is your friend, accept him for his strengths as well as his weakness. Not having trust in you is his weakness. Maybe you have to do some inquiry within to find out the reason that could have made him feel that way. He may be in love with you madly and may be possessive about you. You have to silently accept his misbehaviour. later when he knows the truth that you also love him so much, he would definitely feel ashamed of his act. Dont break relationship with such a trivial matter. Be calm and composed. It is true that you are also depressed, but it is good to be patient rather than being impulsive.
@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
27 Jan 07
hmm..it's really tiring to be stuck in a relationship where there's no trust at all...if you are feeling so bad, then break it off with him...it's not for him to object to it...just tell him straight in the face that if he kept doubting you, then you will end the relationship...stop answering his call and stop seeing him...then he will know that you meant business!
@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
27 Jan 07
If you don't want to be with him and you want to break up with him then this is what you should do . If you are not happy with him now you never will be . And I wouldn't wait because the longer you remain with him the harder it will be to break up in the end .
@anex84 (465)
• Bulgaria
27 Jan 07
Ok well the best way is you break up with him. He will be ok and if you really don't want to the best way is change your ways. Like kinda groos him out make him see he is really not intrested in you. Make sure he catches you talking to guys and he will get upset don't spend much time with him. Stay busy with your friends when he calls say your busy and you will call him back but don't he will get tired of it. I promise the easiest way out is to tell him you don't think he is your type. It won't hurt him as bad.
@weezy250m (1892)
• United States
20 Jan 07
Let me tell you something. The reason why your boyfriend is acting that way is that because he is insecured. Why? Because you are so beautiful and sexy. He always thinks that some guy will come up to you and snag you from him. Just don't take your boyfriend so seriously. He is just paranoid. haha So, the next time he bring something up that is full of crap and is not true, just be silent. Don't say anything or talk back. Just let him nag and nag. Don't take your boyfriend so seriously when it comes to crappy arguing. It will do no good. Just let him talk. Don't be poisoned or be affected by his crappy words. Take Care!
@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
16 Jan 07
Leave him. You're not going to get any further with a person like this. And regardless of whether or not HE wants to end the relationship, YOU do so that is that.
@darkblade (123)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
Well if that's how you feel about it, then do something. There's no more reason for you being in that relationship when all it does to you is annoy you. It's not a relationship when there is no trust.
@Sharuzi22 (21)
• United States
24 Jan 07
Helooo!!! If your so upset with your relationship then why don't you end it? Why does he have to want to break up with you for it to be ok to end the relationship? I mean, did it ever occur to you that maybe he doesn't want to end it because he enjoys treating you like crap? If it's that bad then get out now before you get even more depressed! Sorry for being so blunt but you sound like you need it!