How do you deal with dejection, disappointment?

When I was younger I used to take things badly. Whenever something goes wrong, I want to bang my head against the wall or do something to hurt myself. Now, I try to think more positively and objectively. The world does not owe us a good living or a worry free life. How we think plays a big part in our responses and reaction to situations and people. So I try to be positive, talk to good listeners and move on. We can be down but never out unless we allow ourselves to do that.

Rejection is pretty rude. It is very painful. Disappoinments is part of our mistakes.