If your husband cheats you what you will do?

@bogdanel (1208)
Romania
January 16, 2007 1:25am CST
what you will do if your husband cheats you? Let's say that you have 3 or 4 kids with him.. and you find out that he ceats you? What you will do?
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7 responses
@utanyto (413)
• Romania
16 Jan 07
If she will cheat me, i`ll try to forget,if i can`t we`ll divorce, and i`ll take the kids, or i`ll have my life, and she will have her life, but we`ll stay together, in the same house for our kids
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@bogdanel (1208)
• Romania
16 Jan 07
Good thinking.. I think is the best solution!
@aroraasr (428)
• India
16 Jan 07
I know it will never happen to me but in case i find out that my husband is cheating me then I will talk to him and will try to find out the reasons of getting involved with that lady and will try to sort out issues. I believe this will work. Leaving him is no solution.
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@stailgate (2363)
• United States
16 Jan 07
My husband and I went threw this after we had our second child. He strayed a little bit, and I was so heart broken. At first I wanted to patch things up, then I just got really really mad. After that and I settled down and started to think about what I was giving up, then we worked it out. And we couldn't be happier
@shorva (923)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
married or not,and i don't care if we have kids or none,and once i find out that this guy's cheating on me i'll leave him. sure i could listen to whatever his explanations would be but that's not goin to stop me from leaving.cheaters should just all go to hell and rot in there.
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• United States
16 Jan 07
Infidelity is an unforgivable offense. I don't care what the situation is, or why he did it, it's over.
• Australia
17 Jan 07
If my husband was to cheat on me I would have so many feelings i would explode. I know that I would just cry and cry. But after I got over the initial shock, I think that I would try to work it out. I would want to stay with him because I wasn't the one that strayed- if I did that must mean i don't want him. Having said that. it would mean that he didn't want me and that I may be better off being with someone that would want to be with me and love me forever. I know that it is hard at first to realise that. If we were to work it out and stay together, I think that I would be so cautious about where he goes and who he sees, it would be hard to trst him again. even if he gave me his word that he wouldn't do it again. But then again if there were kids involved that makes it tough. I don't believe in staying together just for the childrens sake. It tends to make it harder because if the relationship is not functioning, the family would fall apart. I've seen it happen before. but if you were to leave and take the kids, i would make sure that we would get along for the kids sake, and reinforce that just because mum and dad aren't together, it doesn't mean that they love the kids any less. i would then try and work out with my partner what would be the best for the children and make it run as smoothly as possible so the kids didn't feel weird. i hope people understand what i'm trying to say. it's been a long day!
@yrteja (651)
• India
16 Jan 07
i will also cheat him in another way or try to make him a good one.