why does my man change as time goes by.......

I guess so because you're spending some moments apart... Is he not from Cavite? Anyway, try settling matters with him, sort things out. As you say, you've been together for the longest time, I for one will have the biggest regret if you two will not work your differences out. I have known some of your future plans and as a friend, I want you to be happy and if your man makes you happy,I want the both of you to end up together.

It happend the same to me, too. People change often with time, life with all its complications also makes a lot of effect on our sentiment. Us women tend to be more affectionate and loyal, it's the way mother nature designs us. Men change more, but sometimes it's just not what they want to. You should sit him down sometimes, talk clearlly everything and let him know how you feel about him, what you expect from him ...