Heart broken

Pakistan
January 16, 2007 8:19am CST
on this monday i say my boyfriend with another girl... i found out that he was cheating on my... i am heart broken and i dont know what to do...
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5 responses
@Monjoy (71)
• India
20 Jan 07
The very same thing happened to me...yes i know it hurts but we need 2 be strongger...show them that people like them cant do anything to us... believe in yourself! Our present day actions make our future so dont ruin yuor studies for someone who dint value you... trust me there is much more in this world...
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• Pakistan
24 Jan 07
Thank you for your support.
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@Judobird (88)
16 Jan 07
I am sorry to hear about the way you had to find out, I found out my long term boyfriend was cheating on me with someone who I thought was his friend and I had stood by him whilst he was in Iraq for six months and was completely faithful. It always hurts finding out things like that. The best thing to do is to keep thinking positive. I confronted my ex boyfriend about it and demanded the truth. He said he didnt tell me cos he loved me too much to lose me but I knew that if he really loved me he couldnt do that. I found this out about a month ago and I am still getting over it and its made me have major trust issues but the fact is if he can do that to you, then he is clearly not worth your time, effort or inclination and therefore you should just try to cheer yourself up safe in the knowledge that you do not stoop to the same standards that he does. Hope you can start to mend your broken heart soon.
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• Pakistan
16 Jan 07
Thank you for your nice comment... I keep thinking of him & can't concentrate on my studies... when i confronted him he acted like as if he did nothing... he was'nt sorry of what he had done...
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@Xrated (3765)
• Pakistan
18 Jan 07
dear first talk to him may be you are wrong that he is cheating with you may be she is his cousin or friend or class fellow so I think the best way is to talk with him and him about your consern I can understand your feelings I know it really hurts but first conferm that u are right or wrong I hope he is not cheating with you if he is cheating then take it as a lesson dont feel bad about it learn about life from your relationship and I know girls can easily know from the eyes of boys that they are honest or not and I think u can also understand so Best of luck for the future
@cheerldr (594)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Just two words: Leave him. It isn't easy as it sounds but you have to. If you'll tolerate what he was doing, there's a possibility that he'll do that again. You should teach him a lesson but don't seek for revenge.
@vikasintl (266)
• India
10 Mar 07
Be subjective instead objective. I mean forget him(object) and feel the pain...cry it out weep and there is nothing wrong...its not weak ...release the negative energy. And take this has a lesson for your personal growth. Hey I also passed through this recently,I am man so what ...man don't have heart and they dont feel pain?