shoul i propose her or talk to her father
@imrankhan9312595506 (24)
India
January 16, 2007 8:48am CST
When i was 16 year old then i saw a girl. she was my neigbor, i looked her first time, when i saw her and after that i always used to foloowed her, i think i loved her,
when she gone to school i always followed her then she come back i to.
one day her father catch me to follow her. he treaten me but i did not get his treaten.
after 2 month she gone to foreign with her father, now she is come back to home, i saw her but she did not reply as she did always.
i think she have forgotten me.
but i really love her. should i propose her to merry or i have to talk to her father . pls. tell me.
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@chemicalh2 (627)
• Philippines
16 Jan 07
Wow! even though your english is quite incoherent, I'll still get your message.
First thing you need to do is be friends with his father! I good impression will erase memories of your bad reputation from stalking.
second, be friends with her and stop following her like a stalker. You'll just get yourself in trouble like the last time.
third, treat her like an angel. make her fall in love with you. then, propose there after.
Good luck bro!
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@SodaLicious (77)
• Malaysia
17 Jan 07
I agree with chemicalh2, but dun forget to ask for blessings from the father.
Btw, how old are u now? Can u be certain that it's love and not merely an infatuation???
@nrmrreddi (356)
• Germany
17 Jan 07
i feel before you get the blessing of the father you should get the willingness of the girl. if need not need only the blessing but also love from her for a good relationship
@maru_047in (1007)
• India
17 Jan 07
First try to b friendly with her i e try to get or earn her friendship by showing some skills which she likes the most and then try to convience her then if she agrees then u can speak to her father regarding this and i think so it ll b solved. Try to get her friendship first by speaking some good with her.
@HighPriestess (739)
• Melbourne, Florida
16 Jan 07
My first husband talked to my dad first. I thought that was so sweet. The fact that he respected my family like that. It's a bit outdated for us here in America, but I think it's evidence of an honorable young man to talk to the dad first.
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@sj_chaudhry (1537)
• Canada
16 Jan 07
i agree with you. it is the right way to take a first step for starting a good relationship, you will not only get respect in front of your beloved but also will in front of her family. wish you best of luck.
@pkguptamca (57)
• India
17 Jan 07
In my openion you should first Propose her and try to know she think about you .if she really loves you and intrested in marrige then only you should go to her father.
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@yorb24 (2179)
• United States
17 Jan 07
Well I'm not exactly sure what the custom is there. But before propsing or talking to her father, maybe you should try to find out how she feels about her. Talk to her and tell her. See what she says. Good luck. I hope it works out for you in the end.
@Sheeniepie (873)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
hi there..
ofcourse you need to settle your feelings with the girl first, because how can you propose to her father, if she doesent feel the same way as you do....
and then from there you need to take the second step which is talking to the Dad and tell him your good intentions to her daughter.. i know it would take some guts, but you can do it, if you really want to.. goodluck^_^
@artsychic (35)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
I think you should ask her father first it is a sign of respect. Are you sure you want to marry her? it seems that she didnt notice you based from your story maybe you should think twice.
@kent_potat (65)
• Malaysia
17 Jan 07
I think that was too early bro. You should ask her for a date first. Tell her about your feeling n ask her to be your girlfriend.
@honeybunnie (51)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
for me it is better to ask the girl first because even if the father dislikes you and the girl likes you a lot i dont think you will have a problem in proposing to the dad. that's what my hubby did when we were still dating after proposing to me he proposed to my dad, my dad is cool to accept him but my mom got dizzy and cried in the end we still got married ;)
@sonyenma (2)
• Nigeria
17 Jan 07
Well,i guess is hard here but u have to win her love back cos no need talking to the father cos your not getting married to him but his daughter.
Use one of those tricks you know she loves get her attention over and ask her for a min,talk to her.i guess man your on your way to propose to her.
@jithinsb (518)
• India
17 Jan 07
i think the right step may be just go and speak it to her ..that would let you know more about her na dher family..if you ga directly to her father and if her father says no right away ,then it will be very difficult to proceed then..you should make a good relationship with her first and then propose her na dif she says ok then you should proceed to the other things like marriage and all..for that you should go and meet her parents and they will defenetly decide and make the right decision..
all the best
@vicky19810 (1600)
• China
17 Jan 07
lol...i think,if you really love her,go ahead.but firstly,you should show to her your true love with her,after all you have no idea that if she has already being love with others.if you can be favorable with her,or let her love you ,then,you can go ahead to tell her father ,and i think he would agree with you and permit you could affiliatd with his daughter,lol,bless you.
@hegde_parvathi (77)
• India
17 Jan 07
I think it is one sided,becouse you use to follow her but she has never responded,you never spoke to her also & she has not responded to you,first thing you have to do is that you have to find out weather she is interested in you then propose,i mean you have to devolop friendship with her first,then ask her frankly about your interest.
@suman76 (648)
• India
17 Jan 07
This is called one side love. You first have to know that whether is loving you or not. Then you will propose her.
