What are you thinking when your husband is looking at another woman?
By toyboxer04
@toyboxer04 (353)
Malta
January 16, 2007 9:26am CST
Though he does it discreetly, I find myself in many situations where my husband is looking at another woman. I mostly notice him while driving in the car, but also in a restaurant, at the supermaket, anywhere. I do not feel jealous because most of the times I feel I'm pretier and that helps me understand a male mind! I am not going to ask if this has ever happened to you because I know it happened to you many times. But I want to know how you feel. Can I be called "normal" for not feeling jealous?
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7 responses
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
17 Jan 07
Since I a man I don't know what my woman would be feeling if I looked at other women. ~But most men have this habit, sometimes you end up looking at another woman without realising you are doing so. Some try to hide it. Others make it so obvious. I think its part of being a man, so all you can do is to accept it but controlling oneself not to get out of the limit.
This reminds me of when my wife goes shopping. She stops at every shop window looking at several items on display. What's wrong with window shopping? What's wrong with looking at other women?
@toyboxer04 (353)
• Malta
17 Jan 07
Without realising you are doing so? That is what my husband says but I never catch him looking at another man without realising he is doing so!
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@PoeTalker (715)
• United States
16 Jan 07
Well, though I am not yet married to my fiance I have experienced this too. Throughout relationships in your life you learn who cheats and who doesn't, who can "weasle" their way in and out of things and who can't. Most of us marry the good men, and we know that theres no chance that they will or would even THINK about cheatting on us. So yes it is normal,alot of times I just say something to him when I catch my fiance doing it. Nothing like OMG WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? Im more like, was she hot?
But if you decided to go with an untrustworthy male and do your best to work through your marriage you should be worried because those are the types with VERY low morals who WILL cheat on you. If you have married one of those men and you are not jealous, then you have your own issues because you cant truely love him...
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@toyboxer04 (353)
• Malta
16 Jan 07
My husband is a very quiet man. I love him too much and I know he also loves me. But when he does it all I comment is I DIDN't KNOW YOU HAD SUCH BAD TASTE! He always takes the hint!
@infamousaunty (241)
• United States
18 Jan 07
You can be called normal.
Just because he is married does not mean he is no longer a man. Men like to look at beautiful women. Men are hard wired for it and we cannot change this about them.
AUNTY
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
3 Feb 07
I am with you that i for one also do not let such a thing bother me! I do not see the need for jeolousy and i also think that jeolousy is a disease! I also do not see the harm in looking it is when it goes beyond looking that you should get upset!!!
@g_aileen09 (1354)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
I like it when I see him looking at beautiful women. this only shows that he is a man. Bad thing is when he looks at other men with luscious eyes. I hope I will never live to see this happen.
@Anakata2007 (1785)
• Canada
2 Feb 07
I get very upset and jealous and insecure. youre lucky that you don't feel jealous. Youre normal yes but you have a high self esteem and that's amazing.