my intimate life
By missy12
@missy12 (65)
United States
January 16, 2007 10:13am CST
I need some advice. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. When we first got together our intimate life was so good and great. We recently moved in together and i was thrilled because we could finally be together as much as we wanted, but i find that i don't even want to be bothered. I love him as much as i did when we got together, even more, so i don't know what the problem is. Can i be stressed or something or unattracted. Can anyone relate?
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2 responses
@jamcon (15)
• United States
16 Jan 07
It could possibly be that you had a big build up to moving in together after dating for 5 years and it wasn't as exciting as you thought it would be after you had been looking forward to it so long. Maybe your expectations were too high. Maybe you are so comfortable with each other that you are like an old married couple. You need to try to make it exciting. Meet him at the door naked as often as possible. :)
@olaff123 (433)
• Namibia
17 Jan 07
You have to remember that your relationship changed. Before moving in together it was still romantic and exciting, and now chores like cleaning, cooking and ironing moved into the same space previously just occupied by romance. You will see him in a different light, and that may be what's affecting your feelings for him.
