now what?
By chaos339
@chaos339 (9)
United States
October 4, 2006 3:23pm CST
my husband is in the military
and we have a baby together, he is now posted in germany, and i am suppossed to go, i am nervous as it is going but now there is so much more
as of lately, my husband and i arent getting along like we should be, this makes me even more confused on whether i should go or not, we both have myspace accounts, he has been talking to his ex girlfriend and commented on one of the pictures that she was hot, if i try to brng this up he just wont talk to me anymore,last time i confronted him with a problem (his drinking problem) he flipped and told me to go find someone else, the military has changed him, what should i do, i am more confused than ever now.
2 responses
@SunnyDays (1070)
• Bahamas
12 Oct 06
Being apart from the family changes a lot of guys and I see it here alot ..If the families are not here what is there left apart from going out drinking or thinking to much..
I think your not getting along lately stems from some ressentment from both sides ..You know about him talking to his ex GF (which i wouldn't like either) and might bug him for the drinking while he knows you are not sure whether you wann join him or not ...What options do you leave him
Give your marriage a chance and go to Germany - It doesn't mean you have to stay there, if everything is going wrong but you should have some faith if you wanna hold on to the marriage ..Give it at least a try OK ?
@Krisss (1231)
• Australia
12 Oct 06
Im sure he is lonely. I read your other post and in my opinion if you want to protect your family and marriage get your backside over to Germany and be with him. He wont need to drink, he wont need to be on myspace, he will be busy spending time with you and your children.
