Moving in with my girl friend (Daunting) Please help me. Please
By ironmike
@ironmike (26)
January 16, 2007 11:58am CST
Hi All, i am moving in with my girl friend.I wont lie, i have had second thought on this. we have only been together for one month. Some might say that things are moving to fast, while others say what ever you feel is right.
I really like her, and have been in serious relationships before. Does anyone out there have any advice for me as it is always good to hear from a outsider than that of someone who knows you.
Dont get me wrong she drives me crazy and me her, but i cant help to think that is this just a result of infactuation or something special.
Please help me.
Thanks.
Kind Regards,Iron Mike:)
2 responses
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
16 Jan 07
I more or less moved in with my bf a week after we met and I just felt that it was right. A year has passed and I do not regret it for a secound. However if you are having doubts, maybe you should slow down, it´s always harder to break up when u are living together.
I do belive that the best way to go - is to follow your heart!
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@ironmike (26)
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16 Jan 07
Hi There,
Thank you for your reply. I dont have doubts, but i do feel that itt is good to be a bit objective and see things from a different point of view. Like you said it would be harder to break up when living together than that being apart.
But as the saying goes, you cant have your cakwe and eat it.
Thanks again.
Kindf Regards,
Mike
@jaizdeep (397)
• India
16 Jan 07
I think the key to this relationship is time just hold on for sometime mike.I know u are very eager and that lady drives u really crazy but i think this might be infatuation too.
SO its better u just hold ur emotions on for a few days or a month and if u still retain them and feel the same way u did earlier then i would say just go on
dont hesitate at all but if those emotions reduce u know whats the answer
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