Kids Kids Kids! / myLot

United States

January 16, 2007 12:41pm CST

I am 26 and married now for almost a year, our anniversary will be in March. My marriage is going really great and we love things just as they are, at least for now. My sister a year older, just had a baby and now oh boy.. The pressure is on us to have a baby as well, and we are not ready and don't want one now! Everyone compares me to her. Can't take it anymore. Everyone says I am so immature that Im not ready to have kids, look your sister was pregnant at your age. I hate this comparing thing - it drives me CRAZY! Don't you think I should have some freedom form this topic I mean Im married now, financially independent why cant ppl leave me alone about this?

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crystal8577

@crystal8577 (1466)

• United States

17 Jan 07

If you are not ready then don't have one. You are still young & have plenty of time to have a baby. You are a newlywed, enjoy this time alone with your husband. I hate when I get compared to my siblings too.

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