Should your bestfriend be your priority among your friends?

Not really, my best friend would never even think of such treatment. I don't do that, if I push anyway it isn't because she is around, or if she is better than my other friends. I would just keep them away if they were rude & offensive in anyway towards her. Then again I probably wouldn't be friends with the non-bf if they started problems.

well if you do such a way then the other friends feel as if they are ignored so when ever we are in a group we are at equal level no matter how best of friends we are

I am assuming you said demanded... What does make one somebodies best friend. I guess the degree of closeness you feel to the person. The fact that you can talk about anything with that person. I for one would think that I have more than one best friend in that way. How can anyone demand priority. You should be spending time as you please. Yes if the friend is really in need then they can be needy and as the saying goes a friend in need is a friend indeed.

What I assume is that If you give your best friend high priority, other friends take it as an offend towards them and even if some apart your best friend willing to come closer to you, may go apart.So, in this case you may be losing a good friend rather than best friend. So, do not rate best friend high among the friends circle, when in circle.