Choosing betwee two friends

@pusiket (1756)
Philippines
January 16, 2007 9:27pm CST
Did you ever experience of choosing between two friends? What happened?
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domenyag
@domenyag (1273)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
choosing between two friends is sometimes unfair... i do not do that. i always go to the middle. i do not want to hurt any friend of mine
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pusiket
@pusiket (1756)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
Same here. But it is so hard to stay in the middle especialy if both of them wants you to choose.
Dolcerina
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
25 Jan 07
sorry to say, but they are not good friends. A real friend let you live. And what ever you do, you can count on her/him. They do not expect you to do anything, because they understand you whatever you do.
caringheart
@caringheart (114)
• United States
28 Jan 07
I agree with you dome
swasti
@swasti (1157)
• India
17 Jan 07
io have experienced that in my college. i had a friend who sits clise to me. and i had another friend who was sitting in the last row. the secofn friend did not have any close freinds exceot me. but i was more close to the friend with whom i sit and we used to njoy as a group. but many times i have left that i would want to be with the second friend to give her company but i could not do it . cuz my first friend used to feel offended by me doing it.anyway it was a very delicate situation for me.somehow i managed with both and finished my college. now i chave phone-contacts with both.
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pusiket
@pusiket (1756)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
It's so kind of you. But it is really tough to maintain tose kinds of friends who demands so much and wanted you to be with them alone.
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pusiket
@pusiket (1756)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
Good for you. Hope your friendships last forever.
swasti
@swasti (1157)
• India
17 Jan 07
yeah but none of myfreidns demanded me to be with them. but i knew wat they felt. anyway those times r now over. i can conatct them thru phone anytime. but still the first friend is more close to me now then tha other.
Dolcerina
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
25 Jan 07
I do not have this experience. But who would ask you to choose. WOuld one of your friend demand it, or did your friend force you into this situation? So Ican not imagine thta itcan happen to me... Because my life is mine, and I select my friends too. I can not imagine that I should choose. I may have many good friend. I must not choose the best..
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pusiket
@pusiket (1756)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
That is what I believes also...that my life is mine. But there are some people who gets into my way and asked me to choose betwee them which is hard and inappropriate to do.
beta_love
@beta_love (451)
• India
23 Jan 07
well there is no way you can choose any of them if they dont understand you they are not deserved of being a friend of yours
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pusiket
@pusiket (1756)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
Got a good point there.
hadees
@hadees (88)
• India
30 Jan 07
YES I HAD .THE OTHER STOP SPEAKING TO ME