Which would you prefer?

I have to agree with the others. If I found out my teenager had smoked a little pot I would be upset but I wouldn't be as spastic if I found out the other two. Pregnancy and alchoholism are life long issues. A little pot smoking can be taken care of, one way or another. The other two no matter what happens will stick with the person for life and can cause all sorts of problems and headaches. Pot is definetly the better choice, although preferably I'd rather not have any be one but we don't always get to have things our way.

goodness, i don't think i can take any of those. not sure, but maybe smoking pot would be the most manageable to deal with.