3 is a crowd... do u agree??
By rovenn
@rovenn (69)
Philippines
January 16, 2007 11:48pm CST
i still remember, i was unwinding with my two girl friends, we spent the time with funny joke and stories, laughing to each other the whole time. i thought that was a really nice day for the three of us..
but then, i was wrong. few days later, one of them suddenly ignoring me and that really puzzled me. i went to her house and invited her to watch vcds and eventually i could talk to her. but to my surprised, she refused and handed me a letter.
i left for home and started to read it. there she said, that she envied our other friend when the three of us are all together. she added that it may be too foolish of herself to feel that way but she's just being true with her feelings. she even honestly said that im the one much closer to her and from that, she's not really having fun with our other friend around... that the two of us is enough but to make it three..for her its a crowd..
geee, i was speechless. it didnt even came out to me that way. because during those times, i was thinking more likely this way.. the more the merrier.
2 responses
@jellybean80 (244)
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18 Jan 07
I think it can be a problem for a lot of people if there are three as often one will take more control, especially when you're younger I think it often doesn't really work as someone will often feel left out. It is quite sad that your friendship went like that but I hope you learnt something from it. I don't think that you did anything wrong at all though and it was about how your friend was feeling, not your actions.
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@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
18 Jan 07
Sometimes 3 is a crowd in certain situations, but not in all. In what you explained above with this girl, yes, I would say 3 is a crowd. Only because of the way she feels. But it doesn't hold true to other people and all other situations. If someone is controling it will happen a lot.
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