Somebody from Mylot wants to meet me - What should I do?

I am sure there are a lot of nice people here. Some are probaly not so nice. I think you should find out some personal information from him, like workplace, friends, etc - and check and see if he is for real. Then if you still want to, meet in a very public place and do not go anywhere else with him the first time. Take a friend with you if you want to be safe. If he won't agree to that, then I'd skip the meet. If you do not want someone right there, then ask a couple of friends to meet in a booth or seat next to where you meet this guy, so they can help if needed. Or just for support. Yes, I am cautious, but I have two daughters. If you do meet with him, have a good time!

please follow your heart, my dear kumiko :) I think it's fine to meet new friend that you know on the net. Maybe you can find some public place for the meeting. And don't go alone. At least ask your friend to accompany you.

oohh really?! i have no idea that this happens also here at mylot. on my opinion there's nothing wrong with that (except that i dont really buy that meet up after chatting setup.. that is if i am the girl involve). but if you feel like liking ang knowing him well go meet him but be sure that you've got your friends to back you up when you are with him. no offense on the guys side but really you have to be with somebody else when you meet him its because you are a girl, in fact as i see your pix you are a pretty one. its not that we don't trust the guy but you have to be cautious. by the way if you decided to meet him goodluck to both of you. keep me posted about this okay? im wishing you the best!

If I would be in your situation,I will let some time to know him better.First of all you can talk more with that man on Messenger to see If is the kind of man that deserve to meet you.Maybe many are very imprudent and want to be with you,but you don't must to make an mistake. I believe that I can meet with that man If I know more about him. So,more than that I believe that you are the only that can decide and you must do what is better for you! I wish you luck! HAve a great day!

I don't find anything wrong in meeting new friends. Be careful though, be sure that you have known him for quite somtime to trust him =). I may suggest that you meet in some public place, then maybe you could learn more about him. Its quite different making a conversation online than in person.

I don't really know, because I Know nothing about this guys character. I met my girlfriend on line a while back and our relationship is great. I am really happy. Most people say it is a bad idea but i guess you can pretty much know when you are dealing with a creep. I see it like this if he ever made you feel like he was creepy, even remotely don't do it!! Otherwise follow your heart because when it comes down to it it's your life and whatever decision you make you have to live with it. Just be safe.

i dont know..are really sure you want to meet him? how long you've been knew him?remember the old paradoks "never talk to strangers".

I only have one suggestion, and that is: "use caution".

offc ourse u must meet him who know s he will be ur future mate.. why dont u give ur sekf a chance

I can see why he might want to meet you as you are very pretty. I would suggest caution however, because the very nature of the internet allows us to disguise many details about ourselves. You have been speaking with him for some time so you will have to make your own judgement about whether he is honest. If you choose to met him then you should consider these suggestions for your own safety. 1 - Don't give him your address or telephone number before you have met. If he turns out OK then fine but if he is a crazy person it's better that he can't stalk you. 2 If you arange to meet make sure you meet in an open, public place. Do not arrange your first meet at his home. 3 Bring a friend along for your first meet, if things are going well your friend can leave and will know who you are with. Good Luck

hi Suzuki how are u hey my car got the same brand Suzuki i think u should meet with him because u may find a great friend in him and if u feel that u should not meet him any more next time-then next time do not meet him but-try to meet with him in some open place like any resturant atleast u will be in the ppl regards :) Brockan

hey,now you have to take decision on it.it depends on you whether to meet him or not.

hmm.. ther'z no risk to meet if u trust him and he trust u.. but yeah certainly who knows what a person is until they are close to each other n ya to get closer u shud meet him.. you have democracy that means u can decide ur things urself.. it depends on u whether to meet him or not.. but regarding just meeting It is okey for u will know him closely.

Hi dear in my openion it will be too early to meet that guy. Coz u cant guess a man/woman in just seven days. you should give ur relationship some more time and then you can proceed for a meeting.

Well personally if you only met him on here about 1 week ago i would probably be careful.. there is nothing wrong with following your heart but i would wait..I think one week is to short of a time.. just be carful and make sure if you do meet him.. meet in a well lit area and in public where lots of people are.. ok.. take care and be carful

Go ahead buddy.meet him .wat is there in meeting a friend.go ahead.u have our support.who knows,he may be the chosen one for u(for marriage).

Yes.You should meet that man.But do not give your personal details about any of your accounts to him at first. Remember another thing that tell him to meet at NOT a lonely place.He may even turn out to be a theif.........So tell him to meet at a place where there are people near to you.

So y ur afraid to and meet him he is human too!!! Good luck

It's OK if you want to see him. But just be careful, you'd better meet in public place, shopping center or some other places with high people flow. Good luck, maybe there will be a sweet romance.

gv lil more time to ur relation .