Will you fall in love w/ your guy best friend?

Philippines
January 17, 2007 1:47am CST
What will you do if you happen to fall in love with your guy best friend?
6 responses
@jeanss (17)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
as long as we're both single, can't see any problem. If he's comitted...better to assess yourself....if you want to pursue him just go on follow the beat of your heart. Maybe you are really meant for each other but take the consequences with all your guts....
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
That's a nice thought you've got there. Thanks for the response :) I guess guts is all the matters in this kind of situation.
@aprilten (1966)
• Philippines
20 Jan 07
I don't see anything wrong with that. I think it's a good thing that you're best friend is also your lover. That is, if you're both single.
@aprilten (1966)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
i was elated when i saw that you chose mine as the best response. thank you so much. this is very inspiring.
@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
Let me answer your question by way of quoting a text message that was sent to me a year ago. Maybe not the exact words but the thought is something to this effect. When people fall in love, they follow their hearts (emotions) rather than their minds. It may not always be right but it gives sweet memories and whenever we look back, it makes us smile and say Sh..t nagkamali ako dun ah. ( I made a mistake)To love someone is not purely emotional, it is an act of the will to care for someone and to do everything for that person's welfare and well- being. In the real sense of the word, we don't fall in love, we decide to love. So going back to your question, what will you do? My answer is, spend time for a good soul searching. Take your time and examine your feelings, don't get carried away by your emotions. I assume by "guy" you mean your boyfriend, if you mean husband, Then do yourself a favor, forget it.
@darckj (885)
• Philippines
17 Jan 07
that thing will not surely happen to me.. simply because im a guy too !!! haha.. but if ever i have a gurl frend [with space in between], theres no way ill fall to them.. as my frend here says:" i dont do frends..!" ^^
• India
17 Jan 07
If you are married dont ever dare to do it will get only pain in relation. if not that upto you whom you select for best of yours. rest all are stories one can argue and come to NO conclusion.
@uhevelyn (219)
• Japan
8 Feb 07
It depends on the situation.But why not if you are both single and available.