Pregnant before marriage - is it to be aborted or delivered

@SHINE333 (1284)
India
January 17, 2007 5:16am CST
She is pregnant and still in college. She had this from her lover who is now out of her country and can be back after one year. She kept this as a secret from her parents and she was not aware to use pregnancy kit in the intial stage. I got this information from her close friend who asked my suggestion. A valuable suggestion from your side will be highly appreciated.
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@Serins (32)
• India
19 Jan 07
Sorry de only thing i can say but it doesnt do any solution, she must disclose de matter 2 her parents & i think y she so stupid in de present century, she is a graduate or similiar i think, ref: NOTE-BOOK
• Singapore
18 Jan 07
I know its painful but there can also be a chance that the boyfriend may not even return to her after one year. She will need to speak with her parents and see if they have any solutions. The last result to be to give the child up for adoptin. In college I don't think she is capable enough to take care of herself and the child.
• India
18 Jan 07
the one you raped can blackmail and other situations may occour , even if she tells her hubby , still , may complications can occour , she can b a victim. but its better to ask crystal clear with the person who raped.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
17 Jan 07
In my opinion life should be protected from conception. I would help my friend by suggesting to keep the baby and try to help her as much as possible.
• United States
18 Jan 07
Definately be delivered. If she doesn't want to keep the baby.. there are options like ADOPTION.. so many people out in the world would love to adopt children, especially little babies. Who cares if she isn't marriage, even if it's a culture thing. She should have the baby.
• United States
18 Jan 07
I think that she should have the baby! For the simple fact, I think that maybe down the line they will get married!
@anil_762001 (1636)
• India
17 Jan 07
she is pregnant and still in college is yet not married.this is huge problem and it should must be get aborted in any circumstances.
• India
17 Jan 07
well the child should get a chance to see this world..it wasnt his fault it was their parents fault..so why should he suffer... in my view abortion is not a good option and also the hospitals should also ban abortion...
• Malta
17 Jan 07
Absolutely do not abort it please! Think of all the women who cannot have a baby and would do anything to have one! You can start counting from me. She can have the baby and I can adopt it anytime she wants. I can even pay her.